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Same here as a non-white, non-muscular, non-insta-influencer introvert finding it extremely hard to find gay (real) friends (in NYC)
Hey! I’m moving to NYC in 2 months, happy to connect :)
First year out of college, I went to community groups at the local LGBT center, LBGT meetup groups, and LGBT non profit meetings. I kept an open mind and shut off the judgmental part of my brain (90% of the people i met were not my tea). After a few months, I found a few people who are now my closest friends today.
honestly it was sports but that maybe works better for lesbians...i did play in a co-ed gay kickball league that was mostly guys though and a lot of cities should have something similar? maybe softball or soccer instead
For me it was on tinder lol. I now call these 3 guys my best friends
For me it’s not difficult to meet people but keeping in touch / seeing them regularly enough to become actual friends is challenging
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27 M Chicago. Been living here for a couple of years. Made some one-off friends but haven't been able to find a steady circle.
30 M Chicago and I’ve pretty much given up trying :-/
Me too, OP 😔
Rising Star
Not really an option now, but I found lots of my closest gay (and straight) friends at concerts and music festivals. You can find the right people if you go to the right artists/stages
May be some of us can connect! Am based in NJ. 32 M
Jersey here also. 29M
New to the city too and looking to make a groups of gay friends! It’s def harder to connect but would like to make a steady circle during these wfh times!