I recently got diagnosed with ADHD as a second year. I’ve honestly had really poor performance for the past 4 months (mistakes left and right) and I want to bring it up to my partners without making it sound like I’m unloading responsibility onto my condition. Is this even a good idea and if so, any suggestions?

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Don’t. Just don’t. It will not help you or make you look better.

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So sad but so true. Stay quiet, crush adderall, and become a super associate

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Maybe just a quick chat acknowledging the situation and that you were dealing with a personal issue and noting that you’ve taken proactive steps to handle the personal issue. End by noting that you’re looking forward to getting back on track.

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Hmmm… I wouldn’t necessarily bring this up. You have to look at it from their perspective. Are you trying to tell them this is why I was bad, and I will continue to be bad but be more understanding b/c I have a condition? I dont think telling them really benefits you here. If you are going to tell them anything, I think A1’s advice is a way to go. If not, just don’t say anything.

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I would not disclose a mental health issue but you could say you were dealing with a personal health matter that has been resolved and you look forward to being on your game going forward

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Just say you had a personal issue going on and that has since resolved and you think moving forward you won’t be making those same mistakes (without blaming them all on the personal issue). Same as what someone noted above.

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I wouldn’t unless someone specifically calls out your poor performance. You may be blowing it out of proportion and by raising it, you’re just drawing negative attention to yourself.

Bro. Leave it alone.

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