I seek advice from my fellow gals about this dude...

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This is just the kind of drama I miss hearing about irl 🤣 but girl I’m so glad you came to your senses 🤦🏼‍♀️🚩😂

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Girl, when I was single, I had a fling with a guy I met in Florence. We had an amazing 3 days together. We exchanged a few emails after I returned home...those Italian men can really put on the charm!!! But a vacation fling is just that and nothing more. Enjoy the memories and get back to your real life.

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Red flags all over. Abort abort.

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What’s your question? Surely you’re not considering dating him or flying to another country after he slept with someone else..

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He blocked you for a week to sleep with someone else. I find it hard to believe this guy is doing anything more than playing games

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Hard to say if it was never, but he certainly was not serious about you when he did that. Shows that he’s really not sure what he wants and he’s not able to communicate up front about that

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You should block him and move on

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I’d say run away as fast as you can. That’s so sketch

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He's using you to get a Visa and out of his country. Run!!!!

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Yikes another country is tough! Would you be willing to travel?

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What’s his angle? Is he trying to get on 90-day fiancé or something?

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OP - it sounds like he unblocked you because he needs something from you. He is using you. Block his ass and run away as fast as you can.

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No! He is definitely just looking for a hookup which is why he wants you to come see him..

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I met him in another country while I was on vacation and ended up sleeping together. We kept in touch after I went back home. A few weeks later I found out he blocked me and then a week later he unblocked me. He told me during that time he slept with another girl but she stopped talking to him after that. He told me I can do whatever I want too since we don’t have a relationship yet. I asked him if he wants an exclusive relationship with me or just fun and he wants all of me and a relationship but he needs me to come see him first so we can talk.

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So y’all think hes not being honest? What should I do? Part of me wants to cut him off but another part wants to see where it goes..

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Yeah I’m going to cut him off. He says he wants a relationship with me and that he won’t sleep with anyone else anymore but I can’t trust him. He’s disrespected me in a couple of instances and I don’t think he’s worth it even though he says we should meet and talk about us.

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I’m just hurt now and I feel so used. I feel so dumb for thinking he actually liked me and that it could have gone further

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Thanks everyone. Yes I did enjoy myself..I tend to get really hard on myself.

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Update: I took everyone’s advice and blocked him. It’s been about 3 weeks and today he used a different number and tried video calling me.

Sounds like a creep. Don’t answer unknown numbers. Glad you’re moving on ☺️☺️

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Hello folks!

I've cleared all rounds of interviews in a good company (atleast acc to me) and since they accepted my 3 months NP so I don't want to let it go.
The problem is its been around 2 weeks and I still haven't received offer letter after final discussion. Till now I was following up with HR, he is a good person (what I felt).
I'm getting a little restless and want to follow up with the manager(who took my interview) to fasten the process without appearing desperate.
Any suggestions?🙏

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