I sometimes feel like my personality/anxiety limit my success. I’m timid/shy, social interactions of any kind make me anxious/nervous. I get overwhelmed so easily. Little things like emailing a client or talking to some of my colleagues causes immense stress. I hate the thought of disappointing others and it wrecks havoc on my emotions. I have major imposter syndrome and compare myself constantly. I’m not sure I’m cut out for PA long term since all of my weaknesses are prevalent in my role

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I’d work on it now. I’m the version of you ten years later who stagnated and failed in my career because I couldn’t go through my social anxiety. All I have to show for it is failed health and no career.

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OP, as someone with GAD and SA, I definitely recommend you work on your issues now. There’s nothing wrong with seeing a therapist or taking medication if needed.
You could also try seeking a non PA role which may be less stressful for you.
I’m one who believes that at the end of the day, it’s just work. Just a paycheck. Who cares about titles? My overall happiness comes from creating experiences with my family and friends.
Don’t be so hard on yourself. We’re all just monkeys trying to make sense out of chaos.

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