I spend WAY too much time on dating apps.

May be moving to Philly soon. What’s the lgbt scene like? I’m a 27m. Newly single and eager to jump back into the dating life

A question for the guys: was this a date?! Ran into a guy I knew in college at a bar, he technically asked me out (“we should get drinks sometime” etc), then paid for my drink. But as we were saying bye, it felt kinda platonic? Like just a hug and “good seeing you.” Or is he not interested? How often do you kiss on a first date?

This guy I went out with has such amazing porcelain glowing skin. I was staring at his skin the whole time 🥵

Any F in Vegas the coming week attending blackhat/ defco? Wanna grab a drink or a bite and connect? M 36 here and would love to spend an evening in the sin city.. HMU

Any of you folks stray (ie cheat) / currently straying in a relationship? How’d it happen? Why’d it go down? Did you tell, etc?

I know there are a lot of people here that are in an open relationship - for y’all: did it ever cross over into something more than just physical?

Just got out of a 5 yr long term relationship. I’m just realizing how awesome the 30+ dating pool is. Everyone is established, got their shits together, no time for games, and we are treating each other like adults. I love my 30s !

Anyone just want to talk for few hours? Unapologetic night conversation m. M33 Nyc

How many of you have hooked up with someone at work? Why was this the best and/or worst decision of your entire life?

Any single woman wants to get a drink? 35 M 🤕

How’s dating in SF vs NYC for women?

Anyone looking to play back 4 blood together?

A girl (she’s 22/23) in my condo is showing keen interest in me. I’m 31M, single and feel this will be a disaster to proceed with. It’s not like that I hate her or something. I just never thought about her.

Also just recovered from a bad breakup after 7+ years of relationship.

I'm in a weird situation. There's someone at work that I find very charming and honestly kind of attractive but I don't have any interest in pursuing anything with them because I'd like to keep that part of my life separate. However we have some pretty strong chemistry, and he does hint at some interest. I don't know how to "shut it down" without making him feel like a creep or making it very awkward for myself, because he's actually picking up on some vibes (though I'm doing my best to shut my feelings down). Advice?

In Chicago for the weekend. Any guys interested in a date, drink, coffee, or more?

Me: “You’re gonna marry me one day!”
Him: “If I play my cards right, you’ll say yes to me one day!”
Me: 🥹🥹🥹 (and that was after I queefed in his face when he went down on me. Yep, I’m the person who posted that just the other day in the “most embarrassing in bed story thread. Y’all should go join in on the fun and read some crazy funny stories😂)

Wow this bowl is dead...no one single in La?

Are there single people in here? WHAT are you doing different to get/meet a partner?

ALPFA events & convention = Old married men hitting on younger women

I don’t use dating apps for dating. I match w/men & quickly move to text. A week later, we meet. I analyze their psychological makeup, set boundaries (only kissing). They want to meet again. I can’t. So we connect via text/video calls. I show my vulnerabilities, insecurities. They open. Trust is built. Subtly, I help them face their blindspots (mostly emotions little boys are taught to repress). Friendship replaces romance & I gently release them back into the dating pool. This is my work.

Folks, I matched with a guy who's an year younger, 6ft+ looks damn hot(according to me). I guess am average & even before I meet I feel it'll be a turndown. How do you deal with such thoughts ?

Is Equinox worth it with an 82k base salary?

2 years out of college, need to leave/transfer. Do I keep internships or just focus on all projects from my one job? And would you add recruiting (to show you took part in side initiatives)? Thanks!

Soul Searching . . . Any recommendations on courses, programs, books, or methods that will help with career soul-searching?

I have been doing consulting for a few years post MBA and have not felt a sense of fulfillment. I’m exploring what I want to do next and would love to know what has helped you.

I am looking for a amazing career opportunity in beauty or fashion! Would love to connect on this platform.

Wanna play a salary reveal game here? Anonymously off course.

Happy to make referrals to Accenture. Feel free to message me directly!

Well, I was the one who broke it off. I couldn’t get him to love me the way I needed or even respect me enough. It’s been 6 weeks of not seeing each other. We messaged this week. He doesn’t get it…. His messages show he still doesn’t know what he wants. Yet, if I am totally honest, I hate how part of me wishes he would do a grand gesture/finally decide to be a better man. It’s delusional. It’s crazy how love can be so rosy, sweet & blinding that the red flags seem surmountable.

Any recommendations for nice spas in the midtown area that offer couples massages? Budget about $150/person

Happy post Thanksgiving/Black Friday

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How much variable pay % HCL technologies have in offer letter.
Can someone share Salay negotian experience with HR?
I got mail from HR for HR discussion round.
I have 12 year experience and my current CTC is 14.3.
Expected CTC-23 lacs

Lately I’ve just felt extremely unrewarded with my job. I have been looking into other fields… maybe going to corp dev or PE?

Has anyone made the jump from FDD into one of these roles? If so, are you willing to share how you did it and how you like it?

What’s the salary band for a senior associate in pwc ac bangalore - management consulting ( Ops Transformation) ?

How much does a campus hire who joined in 2020 and is getting promoted to SA vs lateral hire earn ?

What is the salary range for an Assistant Account Executive?

Hello and congratulations to you all! About to be a first time father, as my wife is due in the first week of the new year ☺️

I couldn't be happier and I'm so glad this community exists for us to share all the joys related to new life. So happy for you all! 💕

Don the Con got played by his own campaign. Blew through $1B and still down by 10 points. Looks like his hires got the best of him and got him into a big hole. MAGA..step up to save your savior!!

Could someone please refer me at JPMC for Java developer with 3.1 YOE, if you can. LWD Oct 26

I applied to this firm in June, had a good interview and I was ready to jump ship. Then they rejected me. Now the same firm has reached out to me for another interview - I said I’d already been rejected, but…

Anyone really like takis?

WWYD? My partner wanted a pet but I did not. Partner got a cat anyways and now I feel resentful about partner’s lack of respect for my feelings in this. The cat wakes me up throughout the night bc of its meowing, “hunting moods”, and hunger, etc. that ONLY happens at night. Otherwise, I would never even know the cat is there. It’s affecting my sleep & I’m growing more resentful bc I never wanted to be a pet owner. How can I navigate this?

Guys, I have to confess something: I’m Bon Jovi.

I mean who doesn’t lie on their resume ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Who else is ready to take a nap? 😴

Curious - did your parents pay your college tuition fees?

I hate my project manager. They constantly get credit for my work, don’t pay attention in meetings and leave early.
Today they literally asked me what the roadblock was 30 min after we got off a call that they were on their phone the whole time during. Then they were asking when everyone’s flights were because they wanted to leave early but didn’t want to be the first to leave since they’re staying the weekend and they then just up and left at 2pm. It’s ridiculous.

Anyone experienced a sibling, who is a naturalized citizen, ‘weaponizing’ their status against you?

I went to a bach party this past weekend where the MOH organized everything incl. our Airbnb which we all paid for months ago. Our bnb got cancelled last minute & we got a new one, which ended up being cheaper. The MOH has not been forthcoming about that price difference, so I don’t know the exact amount for the bnb we stayed in. By my own calcs, it’s ~$200/pp diff. This MOH & I don’t exactly love each other..How should I tactfully bring this up/raise the question of how much the final bnb was?