I started my current Job about 2 months ago and it gives me extreme anxiety I cried the other day after talking to the director. She was being very rude and it shows how she was basically belittling me. They’re having a hard time hiring a manager so I’m left behind to deal with everything on my own and take up that role as well although I’m not hired to do this its stressful and I’m realizing that’s not the path i’d like to take what should I do ? : (

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Definitely look for a new job. You nor anyone else deserves to be treated poorly. Don't continue living a mistake hoping it will get better with a new manager. If the top is bad everything underneath is rotten.

I have a lot of anxiety problems as well when it comes to this stuff! Do what makes you happy! Look for new jobs on the side, you don’t owe the company anything. Good luck!

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Thank you , definitely will : )

Set some boundaries. You’re not her punching bag and you didn’t sign up to be disrespected or belittled. Next time she does it, stop her and say:

‘I’d appreciate if you were a little more professional and a little less rude/belittling. For me to be able to continue working here and achieving the best both for myself and the company this is something we are going to have to work on’

If there is an awkward silence, say ‘is this something you’re able to do?’

If she says no or something of that effect, I would seriously look at other companies if I were you. Just because we are being paid by someone, it does not mean they have any right to disrespect us.

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Thanks a lot ! I’ll definitely keep this in mind. I guess I try to steer away from problems but that’s a really good approach

Don’t expect a lot of sympathy here…a lot of people are cruel here

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Boo hoo... When have you ever been hired to do the exact verbatim job as hired?

Thank you for this ! I definitely will : )

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