I struggle making friends
Whats wrong with me

LOL helped my dad financially about $50k and my dad just told me I could’ve bought a house if I saved up my money and didn’t spend it on myself. The reason why he said that is I went to Europe with my mom and spent about $10k without getting a help from my dad and that is what he said 😒
I can be mad at his comment right? I don’t know why he wants me to buy a house when he doesn’t even have one

F here. I’ve had trouble in relationships because idk how to fight healthily. I’ve been going to therapy for it but I’m struggling atm because my boyfriend who I love so much, I’ve brought to his breaking point with my anxiety fueled approach. I don’t blame him. A lot of this stems from watching my parents & their toxic fights. I want to change not only for myself but for him, because I believe he is worth changing for. But has anyone ever gone through this & made it out better?

Anyone in the suburbs find it harder to make friends compared to the city? I don’t want to move back but I don’t know what else to do..

Any recommendations for books for desi parents ? Politics , economics, world order , self help

<This is a vote not debate>
What consulting company in the Middle East has a good work-life-balance and respect for its people’s personal life / commitment? Hint: new dad here :) 👶🏻

Asian M early thirties here. Came out to my dad a few years ago and today at lunch he spent half of it suggesting that I should go out on dates more often and to ask my friends to set up me with single F friends they know. WTF - what should I do?

Met this guy through friends a few years back. He made me feel really special, told me he was going through a bad patch with his gf at that point. Things happened between us in a couple of months and

We paras are in a cross-category self-contained autism/BD/LD/ED grades 2-4. We are hit, scratched, kicked. We are 6 adults and 10 kids. We work 8:30-3:30. Half hour lunch and no breaks. Is this typical? Short lunch and no breaks?

My dog walker just told me she’s moving and I don’t know of anyone else who provides dog walking services in my neighborhood.
I work 9-10 hour shifts. My girl and I get lots of exercise in the evenings, and she does not have anxiety being alone.. but I’m worried.

For those that work 8hr+/day, what do you do?

Work from home is not an option for me right now.

Please help me with this.

My fiancee is selected in Citibank and i also got offer from Citibank. We are going to get married soon.

Is it allowed to marry within company, or I'll have leave the company.

I'm saying this because i see in credit Suisse, you and spouse can't be working in same company. If they are then there are too much declarations and approvals. And both are investment bank

Going to be a first-time dad in about 2 months. I think we have just about everything, but couldn't decide if a bottle sterilizer is worth it. Could honestly just throw them in the dishwasher, but wanted to get some opinions from this bowl. Appreciate the insight!

What are the top questions you get about big law work over Thanksgiving? Mine is never actually about my work and always some variation of "if you work that much how will you ever get married." Flying home this weekend so bring on the wine!

My kids were really upset with me when I told them that my job as an engineer did not mean that I drove trains for a living

I made a mistake. I talked with the ex this morning. He said he misses me. And that while he walk talking to the other woman, he wished he was talking to me instead. And when he saw that I didn’t respond to his texts, he drank a shit ton. And then called this morning.

He’s not willing to commit to the other women because he’s not over me.

I need to block him.

Alright it’s been 21 days of no contact. Fastest and longest few weeks since lockdown 😞 I know it’s not an exact science but I’m curious on the statistics…who’s heard from their ex after a breakup and how long after?

For those of you living alone, how are you keeping yourself entertained during social distancing? I’m hundreds of miles from my family and the loneliness is starting to get really hard. Zoom/FaceTime calls seem to make the feeling worse, not better. I just feel so isolated. I’ve gone for some outdoor walks with a friend who lives nearby, but otherwise I go weeks without in-person interactions. Any suggestions?

How does one even begin to ask for an open relationship? Currently engaged.

Just found out my SO messed around with someone that works in the same company as me but different city and she knew he has a girlfriend. What should I do?

Hi ladies! I’m in my early 30s and haven’t never been in a successful relationship but would really love to have kids. I’m considering doing it on my own but terrified by a few things- effort, work, Indian community...

Has anyone done something similar?

I recently started a job, and made a pretty big mistake at work today. What is the best way to recover from it?

Graduated from law school with an in-house offer. Was laid off before bar results. Took a paralegal job with promise of promotion once licensed. Never happened. Took another paralegal job (con’t)

Who did the vascepa ad?

Has anyone had PMDD and found something that works for them? I’m fairly new to experiencing it so looking for any advice you may have :)

WiFi wasn’t working on my Delta flight, how many points?

Has anyone ever punched/broke their computer out of frustration?

Any of you elope? What did it entail? I know elopements are like “we ran away and got married” but I wanted to plan a little getaway weekend where we also get married lol. For context, we got engaged last year and have been together for 5. A wedding just isn’t in the cards for us but we still want to make that commitment to each other.

How are power bi projects availability over there?

Anyone hear know about Salt XC? I’ve been seeing a lot of postings from them— what’s it like there?

Is PwC India different from PwC AC & PwC SDC?
If yes, what are the differences please?

Really curious to know if you gain a different amount of knowledge depending on if you work for a union or private. Does anyone have any input?

Just looking over to leap over from Oracle to Microsoft at Level 62 in Microsoft CSS (Not IDC) in India.
Waiting for Offer letter, but what should be an appropriate ask?

How many law enforcement agencies are at play and how do they coordinate when trying to stage something as massive as the raid on the Trump residence?

Looking for energy storage system design and development jobs

Yesterday i got a call from HR she was like man you are frequent changer we can’t proceed. I checked her profile she changed 6 companies in 5 years 😂😂😂

I want to career shift from I.T. ops to dev. But how?

Aerospace Systems Engineer. HCOL/Los Angeles. Current salary $184k. No bonus. 17 YOE. I'm just posting for a data point.

I just saw my husband out on a date with a random woman.

Does anyone else feel anxious about recording billable hrs? This is my first agency job, and I feel anxiety/guilt if I took too long to complete something, not billable enough in a day, etc.

💪Do you have a resolution this year?

Drop it below!

I am reading into every little instance at work with a paranoid narrative that I'm going to be fired and that I don't fit in. I've been laid off twice before and it typically takes me a while to....

Been feeling like a POS lately and constantly having negative thoughts. Just wanted to put it out there, need to be said. Thank you

Can anyone recommend a good psychiatrist or therapist in manhattan? First timer, not sure what to look for

I’ve been in a pretty dark place for the past week or so. The structure of my day-to-day helps me to compartmentalize and prioritize my tasks over dwelling on my thoughts, but it’s still really hard to give a shit about anything that I’m doing. Anyone have any tips in navigating this?

(For background: I’m diagnosed bipolar and medicated, and have been in touch w my therapist about this already. Just curious to see if anyone else is relating at the moment so I feel less alone, and to see if anyone has any coping mechanisms I might not have tried yet)

Thx 🐠🐟🐡😘

Anyone been on medication for binge eating disorder? Anything that worked?

Anyone have therapists in nyc that take BC/BS? Mine along with a lot of others have stopped accepting that insurance

I was already at rock bottom when today I was told the client wants me removed from their account. I am so despondent I have no idea what I’m going to do now. I am just typing into the void.

My anxiety is at an all time high today. I’ve put down almost an entire bottle of wine in the past hour to stop my brain from going. Whirring. Worrying. Had an interview for a job that I don’t want...

Has anyone had a panic attack in the middle of the night while asleep? Last night I woke up shaking and nauseous. And I’m less stressed than normal at work right now

WFH after a sleepless night of vivid intrusive suicidal thoughts. So emotionally exhausted that I can barely focus. If anyone has any words of encouragement or solidarity, I’d be very grateful.

I think it’s time for me to go on meds for my ADHD. I’m deciding between Adderal and Vyvanse. What are the pros and cons of each?

I recovered from an e.d. 10 years ago, and yet a coworker merely GLANCING at my meal last week is still bothering me.

Sometimes wish I could circumvent the stress and go back to skipping meals...

Anybody start a rationship and gotten dumped after 6 months during covid? Or some length of time? How sad were you and how long has it lasted?

Friends, I was offer an opportunity to move to a warmer state to work at an agency I like. My kid who is 13 is (understandably ) hating me. How can I deal with this in a supportive and compassionate way. I hate to do this to him, but I think this could be a good opportunity for the family and the beginning of a new chapter that I’ve wanted for long time. Any help, or advice is appreciated.