I think I’m going mad. Legit have no friends, family I love them but they are crazy, and my ex broke up with me months ago, & all the jobs I interviewed for I didn’t get. I feel so helpless & alone;(

When your friend doesn’t get an interview with your referral and you feel like it’s all because you’re not high enough in the firm yet 😞

I hate that I still want to hear from him. I just have no idea what I want him to say or what I want to say. I feel like if I get anywhere near him he’ll be able to sense my pain. Are we sure the no contact rule is only 21 days? I feel like I need 21 months.

Is it ok to reach out and try to connect on LinkedIn with HR folks at agencies I'm interested in applying to, with an opening message? Do they generally reciprocate, find it annoying or ignore them?

I have worked as Data analyst and BI but companies are mistaking me for Data Science roles in interviews. How to tackle this?

How do I get my fiancé excited about wedding planning? He thinks I am too bossy when it comes to planning but I just want to get things done and out of the way. I am a huge planner and do not like to procrastinate so I push to get things checked off to the lis.

28 M, In a long distance relationship.
Lately finding very hard to manage my time.
Approx schedule on weekdays...

9:00 to 17:00 - Work
17:00 to 19:00 - Helping peers and friends in technical stuff
19:00- 21:00 - Cooking , Gym , fresh-up
21:00- 21:30 - Dinner
21:30 - 23:30 - Learning , reading books & news, searching for home purchase etc…
23:30- 1:30 - calls from SO, family & friends..
Tired af , sleep until 8.30 , repeat 😒
How you guys are managing? Help me pls..

Hi fishes, looking for referral in Testing domain for PLC/DCS control systems. Please let me know if anyone can arrange interview for me. Currently serving notice period.

How to handle the dual employment in BGV? I have a friend who have a overlap of 30-40 days from his last organization which is not disclosed in CV and with current organization. I feel UAN check will spoil it but his overlap is cuz he wasn't able to return assets back during COVID. Any suggestions?

Anyone here at EKSH? I’m interviewing there in a couple of weeks for audit and I’m nervous but excited. Any suggestions?

How do RSUs in a PE owned firm work? I’m in early stage interview with such a firm and RSUs are part of the comp. I assume I would need the PE firm to sell or IPO the company in order to realise value from the RSUs. Is that right?

Interview with Oscar Health for a Director position. What’s the comp range?

Wife got lawyer, and I am interviewing lawyers starting tomorrow. I am primary breadwinner (95%), but she is citing at-fault divorce. I have been having substance abuse issues and anger issues (no physical violence). Need help. She is okay about negotiating outside lawyers. Can anyone recommend a divorce lawyer in ATL area? Any pointers? No kids. Married for 3 years. I paid her student loans and put her through school.

I have 1 one year old and have told my husband that I want to get divorced. He is being immature about the process and is just trying to make everything difficult. Sometimes he says he will move out, then he says the baby and I should, sometimes he says he wants custody when the real reason im leaving is his lack of interest amd resppnsibility toward our family. I can tell he is hurt and is upset that i dont love him anymore and want to get everything ready to make the exit easy. How do I start?

I found some extremely provocative and inappropriate TikTok’s of my cousin’s kid today (8 years old). I’m genuinely concerned. My first instinct was to call my cousin (whom I’m close with, like a sis) and tell her but after giving it some time, I’m on the fence. About a year ago, I found inappropriate TikTok’s of a close friend’s kid and told my friend as soon as I found out. She sounded appreciative that I let her know but TBH, our relationship hasn’t been the same and we rarely talk anymore.

Did an interview yesterday, as per my own judgment it was good & the interviewer asked me to prepare three references and said that I will be contacted by the HR team. Does this mean i got the job?

Any tips for interview with EPI practice at Kearney for Manager position?

Does anyone have experience with a prenup/postnup? I have been wanting to get a postnuptial because I did not think about these things when I got married. We make the same salary, have separate accounts, but I have been building my wealth and working hard at saving my money while he has a mountain of debt and doesn’t save. It scares me to think if anything happens, he could just take half of my assets.

Can somebody please share important topics for Java Development profile for "Infosys technical interview". Yoe - 2years. I will be very grateful. TIA

Where to find the best roommates that are friend-material, kind,'friendly, want to include you in their friend group, share similar values as you and won't judge you?

Super bored waiting for school to start in the fall. Any good book recommendations?

Is going with the lowest interest rate always the best option for home financing? Or one should consider taking a higher interest rate but with more lender credit?

Anyone at Nike willing to chat? Please DM me, I have some questions.

What % salary increase should you aim for when exiting to industry? Healthcare is the industry if that makes a difference

Why does Atlanta seem to be a major L&E hub like California? Ogletree, Fisher Philips, and Ford Harrison are all from Atlanta, and there always appears to be jobs in Atlanta and California. I think California is obvious (large market plus extensive employment law regimen), but I can’t understand Georgia

Feel insecure everyday, learning new, not being the best/expected, self learning did not count in utilization, worry on peer pressure, losing hairs. WHY

Hi All,
I am looking for any opportunities in data engineering/ cloud sw dev space.
Location preference : Chennai, India / complete remote
Years of experience: 9 years
Data engineer experience: 4 years
Web services development : 8 years
Aws experience: 2 years
Key skills: snowflake, Cassandra, spark, Kafka, MQ's(rabbit and active mq) , java, docker, spring batch, spring boot, rest and soap webservices, aws migrations, python, Javascript,sql and plsql, ooo designs, event driven architecture.

Looking for a shortcut key that is the equivalent of PowePoint's Ctrl + Shift + Up/Down arrow.

Essentially a way to switch row positions w/o replacing or inserting cells...

Any car junkies here? Can someone please explain to me why people like to do burnouts down the middle of a residential street?

Has anyone claimed brokerage and depository allowance as per the personal lease policy? Can you please share the process to do so?

Renting a private bedroom/private bathroom in a 2 bed/2 bath condo in NE DC (right by the Costco). Short term leases accepted. $1,000 utilities included. DM if you are interested or need more info.

Looking for new opportunity

What's up with non-Big4 folks taking shots here at the Big4? Of course, we vent about our firms, but outsiders watch it!

Please let me know if any openings for 1 plus years of exp in servicenow

What are the typical work weeks for consultants based in dubai offices?

Are you doing M - F or S - T? Is it standardized or mostly client dependent?

What is the typical salary for a contracts administrator? Should I ask for more if it’s contract?
I told them I want $80K and they moved me on to interviews?

Any Telus EA’s want to provide salary bands?

Anyone have night terrors? Woke up screaming in another room last 2 nights. Last night on the floor after hallucinating that a laser was going thru my brain b/c I “didn’t take my pill” contd

Moved to industry in a diff city. I’m feeling really lonely. My husband has been supportive but I miss our ppl. I keep trying to make plans but ppl keep cancelling/changing. Tips to make new friends?

Happy Sunday beautiful people! I hope you got a chance to rest (or do whatever you wanted to) this weekend. If not, I hope you take today to do it. I’m always here for a chat ❤️

I am blessed with so much, but yet consistently been unhappy for the past few years. I feel I dont get the love and appreciation I seek from family and marriage. At times, I feel my life should go to someone else who wants to live and I can instead leave this world. I know I will be fine eventually (dark thoughts will go away) but I am no longer interested in this life, even though I am blessed with so much.

I desperately need out of consulting and back into a normal schedule and routine. I haven’t redone my resume in awhile. Would anyone be willing to assist me in revamping my resume or review it soon

I’m depressed, anxious, unmotivated, uninterested, easily frustrated, dead inside, etc. i pretend to be the opposite of me during interview and got the job. I’m starting the new job soon, do I continue faking it? I usually work with people who needs you to be nice and warm and involved and conversational and I force myself to be that and got burned out every day and I would hate faking again in new job..

I don’t have friends and I feel so alone. I pride myself on being independent, but I feel like I don’t have anyone anymore

2.20am in the UK. Been turning and tossing. I try to switch off my mind, spray some lavender spray on my pillows but doesn’t stop my mind thinking about work and life in general. HELP.

I’m breaking. Each day is a marathon. I can’t afford to drop the ball on any of a million things. There’s no light at the end of the tunnel. Feeling stuck. How am I supposed to get up every day and do this all over again?

How do you realize you’re stressed? How do you recognize the feeling of stress? How would you describe it?

Sometimes I don’t consciously recognize it, but when I’m truly stressed I start getting headaches that goes on for months.

Just find out my employer has been hiding a secret rubrik for how they promote people. I've been here 5 years. Already have big issues with being lied to, on account of being raised in a cult. If I can't find another job asap, I dunno what to do. This is absolutely

A letter to my ex..

Please see comments. Apologies for the length

I'm curious, has anyone ever called the suicide prevention numbers? What was your experience?

I’ve suffered from workaholism for a long time. Thanks to a lot of great self help books and therapy, I’m no longer putting work on a pedestal and I’m spending a lot more time on self care and my marriage. But, unfortunately, I am now getting withdrawals, because my body is used to the daily adrenaline of throwing myself into work. It’s this terrible feeling of like anguish/unease in my gut, but I don’t have anything I’m worried about- it’s like my body wants to find something to worry about.

I had an interview last week and waiting is raising my anxiety. I am on anxiety medications and it doesn’t seem to help. I don’t know why I am getting anxious as I already know I can not control the

For those who experienced burn out and changed jobs, which job allowed you to feel better and changed your situation ? Did you get a job with less hours / low stress ? I’m a senior auditor looking for a change. I’m experiencing a burn out and too much stress. Thanks

I have horrible brain fog and can not find anything to shack it it’s really effecting my professional and personal live