I think my co-workers believe I suck at my job. They have not provided me with feedback, but I just have a gut feeling in the way the talk to me sometimes. Am I being paranoid? Suggestions?

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If you are concerned, consider asking for constructive feedback. Good habit to get into in general, whether you think are doing well or not. Always an opportunity to improve!

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