I think my SO is “the one.” we’ve been dating for a year and a half and plan to move in together in a few months. How did you guys know when you’d met “the one”?

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You don’t know. You choose to believe.

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Honestly it took me like 3 years to come to terms with my husband being the one. It was the moment that e had a massive fight at night and I woke up forgetting about the fight for a millisecond and just purely happy that he was the one I was waking up next to, remembered the right got angry but was still happy.

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Aw that’s sweet!! I feel like I could easily imagine that with my boyfriend. We haven’t had any massive fights- a couple things where feelings were accidentally hurt- but I feel like no matter what, I would want to fight for what we have together

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