I Think parent should have realized by now how teachers play important roles not just in their kids life but also theirs.

Parents who have or have had a baby. How was the first year or two for you? Was it awesome, was it terrible, did it change your relationship with your partner? Did you regret it, did you want out? I've heard that having a baby can really change things between you and your partner and that a lot of marriages fall apart at that point. Just interested in stories and feedback.

Also curious if one partner kind of pressured the other into having a child/was driving force in wanting the baby.

I test drove a 2017 330 gt, got an offer for around 28K. I need to fit 2 child seats and don’t want to get an SUV. It’s surprisingly roomy inside. Asking for the pros here for any insights or things to be aware of before I pull the trigger. My first german car upgrading from an accord.

I am trying to get promoted next year but I am pregnant now (~15 weeks) and based on my due date I will have to take the whole summer busy tax season off. I am not guaranteed to get promoted but I think I can get it. Do you think if I tell my partner now that it will hurt my promotion?

Fellow ad ladies with baby faces, how do you all deal with it?

I'm tired of having to having to prove over and over that i'm not 12 and that I know what I'm doing.

Someone tell me how they manage being a single mother as an associate in Big Law without completely relying on a nanny or day care. My kids are in school from 8 to 5. Right now I’m consistently billing from 8:30-4:30 with making up a few hours here and there. I just want to make sure I’m there for them while still giving me time to workout.

I enrolled my baby into day care. She will turn one by then. I'm told she should feed herself with very little help. Is this possible? I am onto baby led weaning but I don't rely on it completely.

What is the federal parental leave policy? I’m new to government and having a baby soon. I know we’re given 12 weeks and have to sign an agreement to work 12 weeks after we return but are there other stipulations to a claw back period or how long we had to be at the agency first?

Not looking for judgment or advice, just some kind words of support.
I'm pretty sure I'm pregnant, getting the confirmation tomorrow. The father isn't someone I can reach out to, I haven't been able to tell anyone and won't be planning to.
I intend to get an abortion once it's confirmed.

I've always been pretty independent but this just feels so lonely, going through all this waiting and anxiety alone.

Teaching Autistic Support via Zoom is so difficult. The behaviors are way worse and there is next to nothing I can do to help my students parents.

So far I’ve been through 1 IVF cycle. I have one embryo that is frozen waiting for transfer. My doctor is wanting me to do another round of IVF to back eggs for baby number two down the road. Has anyone been through this? I know of two people around my age that got pregnant naturally with their second baby after IVF. Does anyone know about banking embryos for future use instead of transferring? My insurance doesn’t cover anything so all this of out of pocket.

I’m 9 weeks pregnant and trying to keep my work groove going while not vomiting on everyone. Can’t wait until I get through the first trimester and feel comfortable being open about this whole mess.

Anyone have a successful baby after first IUI or first IVF?

First week back post maternity leave and with full time day care. Does it get easier? I feel like I’m missing out on all of my baby’s life 🥺

Looking for recos for good movers for a multi-state move. Going full remote and moving from NYC down south to be closer to family. Of course since I’m moving away from work, it’s on my own dime so trying to keep it affordable.

My best friend’s 10 year old daughter just got diagnosed with scoliosis. She is divorced and has always said her ex was a great father. Since the divorce a few years ago, she’s been more and more negative towards him now that he is moving on a remarried, having a kid etc. I sympathize and try to keep her positive but she’s constantly complaining and feeling like the victim about everything. She refuses to get a therapist. I told her it won’t be the worst thing if

Any moms in NJ and scheduled to give birth at the Hackensack University Medical Center? With COVID-19 cases being treated there, I’m wondering if child birth won’t get the attention it deserves

Sharing just because we never shared with friends or family and this will be therapeutic in a bowl of those who may have similar experience.

Weve been working with a fertility specialist and finally got pregnant. Week 8 today and found there is no longer a heart beat.

Devastated and trying to recognize it’s a set back not the end. Any love or advise welcome.

Was previously working as an advisor growing a nice book and left to move 18hrs away to be close to family. I was pregnant and desperate to take what would move us and now I’m a planner working for FAs and I’m making $130k. Was fine at first while I got thru pregnancy but now I’m not happy & regret accepting the job and pay. I’m supporting others who are making 3-4times my salary. I have 10 yrs experience and CFP, often more than FAs I’m helping. Ask for more $$ or start over being an FA?

Any recommendation on where to go for dinner with team in midtown? Struggling to think of a nice, relatively fancy spot. TIA!

For those familiar with MBB to PE investment team transitions -- does being at MBB at the post-MBA level without an MBA close MF/UMM recruiting opportunities? Or am I fine given I don't have an MBA as long as I position myself as a pre-MBA candidate?

Hey guys. So I am an actuarial analyst who got started about three months ago. I had a chance to do a data scientist intern, which I really loved. I am three months into the full time position as an actuarial analyst and I am finding the job not as exciting. It certainly isn’t what I have expected. Does anyone have any experience of moving out of the actuarial world to the data science role? How hard was the transition? What are the steps that you took? I am seeking for advice and help! Thanks!

Hi Fishes,

My colleague's younger sister is looking for a job as a fresher. She has recently graduated (B.com) and is pursuing US CMA. She's also done a couple of internships and is highly proactive and motivated. The family has been struggling to meet the ends specially due to Covid Pandemic.

Tried applying via Naukri and LinkedIn but there's hardly any response.
Can someone please refer her in their organization for a relevant role for a B.Com graduate. DM me for more details.

TIA

I have a good relationship with my Practice Leader, and they’ve put me up for Partner this year (🤞). But I have a competing, higher-comp, offer for direct admit Partner at another, larger firm. Tbh, I’m thinking about it. Should I discuss with my Practice Leader?

I’m probably not going to use it for leverage, as I think that’d sour things, but want to make it known - if there any doubts - that I have options elsewhere. Should I leak it to a different Partner that I am considering this offer?

Hi All,

I received appraisal mail to fill the attached Excel sheet. But I am clues less to fill exactly what. Can I get any help ? Or shall I fill randomly

Should you join PS XT or ThoughtWorks?
YOE: 6.5
Skill: Full Stack Dev /MEAN /MERN

Looks like Bryan Cave is gonna open up another huge wave of layoffs. I wonder what firms are next?

How reliable are the law crossing websites reported salaries? Are they actual reports by employees or some type of estimate based on an algorithm?

Buy catgirl today in the dip? (Newbie here)

Anyone’s company doing a permanent remote/hybrid model?

My old coach left for Google. What’s the best way to ask for a referral?

Feels like “rally” over last 3.5 wks isn’t based on much. As job data, Q2 earnings, Q3 guidance (or lack of), & fall virus resurgence all loom, seems like good time to buy SPY puts. Counter arguments?

Anyone looking into MGNI? Thoughts?

I am a Mild Cognitive Impaired High School Special Ed teacher. I am looking for recommendations for online reading programs.

I'm looking to get in to pharma sales and have a sales background but in medical device. Has anyone made this switch? Would you be willing to offer any advice?

Anyone have any leads on 6-12 ELA positions in Chicago? I really want to branch out!

Dang. I am realizing, how important preparing my meals is to my well-being. Skipped a meal, because my principal came in during my prep. I should have still eaten. I was lagging the rest of the day. Also, so glad I have cold water dispenser in my class. It is a life-saver.

We have a new SEL inititaive at my school. I am embarrased to say I don't know what SEL is.

Does our President know how bad it looks for him to claim that the reason we have more virus cases is because we have done too many tests?
I mean, does this reasoning make any sense to anyone?

Does anyone else find that their students have a hard time understanding old classics? I tried reading "The Mouse and Motorcycle" and my kids found it boring and difficult.

Hey everyone! I am a middle school math teacher in SC, so excited to be in this platform for quality discussion :)

Snow day tomorrow due to the possibility of accumulation of snow during the day. I’m glad I’m not the one making these decisions!

I just hope not many of my students saw the Capitol January 6 bird brains storm the Congress. Also, didn't see the short terms of imprisonment they get. 3-5 years for breaking doors, windows, threatening hitting and killing federal employees, urinating on the floors etc., destroying government property at our Federal capitol where our laws are made? How are kids to think they should get consequences if these people who storm the capitol get a slap on the wrist?

What's your favorite way to spend a snow day?

I don't want to hear how busy my admin is when they make 30 to 50 thousand more a year than I do. Smh. Anyone else?

How has teaching changed since you began? Would you change anything? Are you looking to leave the profession and if so why or why not?

I'll have my own kindergartener who I've worked really hard to prepare for Kinder this year, but I'm worried since he's missed so much socialization this year. What can i do?

Should all students be required to play a sport?

Is “Teacher Block” a thing, like “writers block”? I am working summer school for nonverbal kiddos and I swear I’ve never struggled more to think creatively and design fun and engaging activities.

I am a Mild Cognitive Impaired High School Special Ed teacher. I am looking for recommendations for online reading programs.

Has anyone used class dojo in upper grades? Thoughts?

Should respect be EARNED or GIVEN? 🤔 Chime in.

I come from the European culture of education where teachers are highly respected - very much like in the Japanese society where teachers get the utmost respect, as high as if not even higher than doctors / surgeons.

Students stand up when the teacher enters the classroom, say “hello” when seen in the hallway, etc. Teachers are (or at least are expected to be) GIVEN the respect by students. Seems in the US respect has to be EARNED.