I thought my friend was gay. Turns out he’s not. And now I think I have a crush on him. But I can’t get it out of my head that I thought he was gay! (I’m a woman btw)

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Most New York guys are a little gay

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This sounds like more of an opportunity than a problem. 😉

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So you thought that someone who isn’t gay was gay and now that you know he isn’t gay you can’t get out of your head that you thought he was gay and the idiot is CW2? Okay.

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lol

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Don't most women wish their gay friends were straight? What's the problem? Sound like you hit the jackpot 😉. Go git it girl

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I had this happen OP. Not interested in dating him, but assumed my coworker was gay for so long, it’s hard for me to believe he’s straight. Despite him dating other women. “Maybe he doesn’t know yet?” - my stubborn brain

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And maybe you’re an idiot @CW2. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Or bi or pan?

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Is he European?

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Maybe you’re gay?

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Maybe you're a man

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Everybody... he’s metro

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I feel like this is the plot to a French farce that ends with everyone sleeping with each other.

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Word to the wise: Don’t shit where you eat. Plenty of other pseudo-metro-gayish- fish in this swamp

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Aren’t most nice and hot guys gay guys anyways? 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t blame you girl

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What? How did you even jump to THAT conclusion? I’m not gay. I’m a woman who thought my guy friend was gay. @CW1

Give it some time. That feeling will go away soon .

ACD3...no he’s not.

OP, what do you mean, you “can’t get it out of your head?” Are you saying you don’t believe that he’s straight, or that the thought of him being gay makes you less attracted to him, or what?

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