I want to hit up a guy I went to college with (~4 years ago). He was trying to pursue me back then but I didn’t want anything serious. now I’ve been thinking about the “what if.” Would it be weird to?

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Doesn’t hurt to try! I hit up a guy because I kept wondering “what if.” It ended up not happening, but I felt so much better. Makes it easier to move on if it doesn’t work out.


If he’s single, then send him a dick pick and see if he’s still into it :-)


I second this. If you’re a girl then just get one off google, it’ll send the same message.




What’s the worst that happens?

Shoot the shot


No do it

Never hurts to just say hi...

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