I want to settle down and have a family, but I think I’m too picky.

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What do you think you’re picky about?

Yea what’s going on? Tell us moreeeeeeeee.

Same, but I don’t want more than what I can offer. Seems to be hard to find my match.

Gurrrlll, you’re preaching to the choir! An advice I’ve been given is to “tone down the checklist” 😆

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