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I want to start dating again and join some apps but I’m worried by ex or his friends will see my profile. What should I do?
I’m tired of negative energy and I have no reason to block his personal number but I don’t want him seeing anything I’m doing with my life. I think it will hurt him because he’s “in love”…

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Biggest advice is to live your own life and don’t worry about what others see/don’t see

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I mean if he sees it, it means he’s on dating apps too🤔

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You know, that’s a damn good point 🤔

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Let them watch. What’s a star without an audience 💫

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Why do you have to care about him more than yourself? He will get over it. The sooner he sees you move on, the sooner he is over you potentially…

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We’re all on dating apps looking for something so 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Why yall ex’s if he’s “in love”?

Oh 💩… 2 ppl? Is that right….

Move on and do whatever makes you happy. You could also be seen dating in a bar or a restaurant, are you going full celibate because of what the person you didn't want to be with anymore might think?

I agree with the previous commenters if he sees it he sees it. It’s your ex while easier said than done you’re both free to date whoever you want. I understand your feelings though I was broken up with and an app matched me and my ex after our breakup as “most compatible” which hurt like hell to see

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