I want to take a mental health leave but I don’t want to go into details with my employer. How do you ask for this?

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But how? Do I have to tell me counselor/leadership?

OP, there’s many conversations on this topic. :) Do a search on “LOA” in this bowl, the general consulting bowl, and your company bowl. Also, research your firm’s policy. If you apply for Short Term Disability, your insurance, HR, and doctor need to be involved to approve the leave.

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How to Ask for LOA

https://money.usnews.com/money/careers/company-culture/articles/how-to-ask-for-a-leave-of-absence

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