I was Mol$t3d by my college classmates…. They all became high officials in the government. I was raised in a Christian household but I can’t get myself to forgive them. Given the opportunity I do not know what I would do.. YES I said NO yea I fought got some ribs and wrist broken to prove it!!! But at the end I just wanted to die! Im better now but can’t seem to be able to hold a “normal” intimat3 liv3

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You don’t need to forgive. You just have to get to the point where you’re kind to yourself and not blame yourself for the actions of pos. Try therapy and once again remember to be kind to yourself. Sorry it happened and to hell with those guys.

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I am sorry this happened to you. Please consider going to therapy and if you’re still a Christian I would also recommend going to an inner healing ministry that does Sozo or something similar. I was in a similar position and it helped me.

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Sorry this happened to you.

Sorry that this happened to you. I hope you are able to forgive yourself and heal from this. Are you able to take any legal action?

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