I was supposed to get married to someone I thought was my soulmate but it ended in January. I’m over him kind of but I’m still upset. I feel like I won’t find any good guys anymore as I’m turning 27 soon 😫😫😫😫

Just wanted to let it out lol

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You can get married at 22 and be divorced by 26. You can get married at 23 and get cancer and stuffer a lifetime and I’m sure you’ve witnessed many first hand tragedies. Not to downplay your feelings or worry but as long as you and your loved ones are safe and healthy, the rest is just part of the process and will happen when it’s meant to happen. Always thank God for what you have and appreciate that it didn’t workout early on before you got married and things got complicated.

Eventually, if it’s God’s plan for you to get married. It will happen without much effort - always pray for Allah to choose and guide you to what’s best for you.

Most people are good but lose sight of the purpose and each ends up justifying their own flaws to what fits their narrative.

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It doesn’t sound great to hear now but I have a feeling that you will look back on this one day and be grateful for that moment. Sending you love and light OP 💕 Also I think you will hear more similar stories if you try posting in a women’s bowl…it may be more uplifting and comforting at the moment than just hearing sabr or be grateful.

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Thank you 🙏 ❤️❤️❤️yes! Just wanted to do a little rant and didn’t want to go to my friends for it lol. You know those late night overthinking but thank you guys for your kind words ♥️

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Girl, 27 is still young! You got this! Focus on you and your craft. Someone will come along and be there in time.

Just👏keep👏pushing.

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Sabr

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Have hope and faith. IA, it will happen. Trust God’s plan!

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Feeling this, was supposed to get married this summer but him and his family broke things off abruptly. It’s hard to stay motivated in life and even in work at this moment but I’m making Dua for you. IA hoping things get better for the both of us.

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Aww I’m sorry to hear that :( inshaAllah there is someone better waiting for us Ameen. I will also make dua for you 🥰♥️

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My girlfriend is 27 and she found a greatest possible guy, best decision in her life

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You don’t need to worry about this. Remember the right person matters, not the right time. I’m sure you’ll find someone even better.

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I'm so sorry tohear about the break up. I will say, you have plenty of time! It will happen <3.

Thank you ♥️

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