I would like to get a book on marriage advice (preferably Muslim/ western Muslim POV) for a recently engaged friend. Both parties are Muslim and in their late 20s/ early 30s. Any suggestions?

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Before You Tie the Knot - Mohamed Magid and Salma Abugideiri

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The subtle art of not giving a F*ck.

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^ agreed

2. Dwell in Tranquility: An Islamic Roadmap to the Vibrant Marriage -kamal shaarawy

3. Islamic guide to sexual relations -Muhammad ibn adam Al kawthari

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I am six years married and I need one too. Following

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