I am a boy and was made naked by my super-seniors during ragging in front of a girl. Now that same girl joined my team recently and she well recognises me.. I still feel a lot of shy/exposed in having any communication with her. ,😋 Also I doubt she may disclose my secrets to team mates as she befriends them gradually 😪😇. What to do..

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Do it again, in front of everyone. Don't let them have an advantage over you. Choose Monday.

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Slide what in? @infosys1

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Trust me, that's a simple problem to solve.
Somehow get an informal meetup with the team, over tea/coffee/drinks and tell the story yourself, have fun. Trust me, the ability to laugh at yourself will take you far, and nobody will be able to attack you. Also, the added benefit is, sharing secrets is proven to have a positive bonding effect on any group.

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Are bro.. bas do peg marne ka.. aa jayegi ;)

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Well college and jobs are way too different, even work place policies binds her not to spread such things in workplace.
But policies and real life are same as anti ragging rules and what happened to you.
I suggest to confront her, talk to her about same ,alone. Get what she thinks about it now. Years of graduation and maturity changes people, its not a matter of joke anymore.
Also i feel you are just worried about her , if she handles it cool then you might not feel same for other( who might know the story through her)

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Do what Tyrion Lannister said, walk naked again and wear it like an armour. She couldn't tell that to anyone 😆

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If it is not all fun and games for you and later you found this info is leaked and your work life is getting impacted, be sure to file an ASHI request!

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But first talk to her and solve this issue like mature adults.

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This scarred you if you are scared. Talk to a therapist.

भाई, शरमा मत.. भूल मत, नंगे के नौ ग्रह बलवान होते हैं।

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sk her about how your ding dong was 😅

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