If anyone is available to chat for a few minutes today in DM, I just need some support that I can save my relationship after a fight which has sent me into a depressive episode. Thanks fam :)

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The station I work at is down at least 15 positions. Some jobs have been open for two years.

The remaining staff is required to step up.

Additional positions are opening up as contracts are either broken or expire.

How are people able to keep their mental health up when their station isn’t hiring people they need and refuse to pay living wages to potential prospects or promote those remaining?

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I am a single guy and I have a single (female) friend calling me everyday and she talks really fast and complains a lot during our conversation. She cannot spend time by herself and I have a feeling that she keeps contacting whoever she can to talk to. Should I be upfront with her saying that I do not have enough time to talk?

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TL;DR- Pets & HSW.
does anyone from H/S/W have experience with pets? I’ve read that during school, the college schedule makes having a pet doable. But, I’m a little concerned about exiting a top B-School with one (esp. into consulting). What are your thoughts?

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Omg. I just spent 36 minutes explaining to a man how to turn his son's toy on and make it work. The first question was "does it have a functional battery?" and he said yes.

After 34 MINUTES he decided to check if it actually had a battery. You know the rest of the story...

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My sisters coworker is a confirmed case of Covid - do I need to alert my own coworkers? (We live together which is why I’m worried but unsure of etiquette)

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How do you envision gyms opening as part of phase 2? Going to be very difficult to add in restrictions and guidelines in my opinion. Should go for an all or nothing approach and not even think about placing restrictions on my hot yoga class.

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About a year into our infertility journey and considering switching from my husband's company's benefits to EY's to take advantage of the 50K lifetime benefit. I know I would need to switch to EY coverage, but does my husband also haveto be on EY's insurance to have IVF costs fully reimbursed?

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How do you handle the judgments and disappointed from family and friends upon leaving law?

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I’m not physically attracted to a guy I am seeing now however he adores me and he is absolutely so easy to be with / get along. Being with him is fun, relaxing, and just such a good time. He makes me feel so good about myself (a first!).

My sister thinks it’s settling but I feel like if my only gripe is appearance then that’s such an easy thing to change, right?

Can anyone (respectfully) shine some light on this? Be nice.

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Is it possible that we are seeing a rise in ADHD diagnoses due to the need of schools and companies to always push to do more and maximize everything? I was diagnosed later in life.

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Going back to work next month. Have a full time nanny but feel like even that isnt enough. I work all sorts of timezones. Europe has my morning, Asia has my evening. Nanny 9-5? 7-3? 10-6? No clue what will work best and don’t want to be inconsistent with her. Any advice on the return?

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Putting my papers tomorrow. Burnt badly by office politics. Not gonna say anything though except probably a love you all note!

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The severance package at Meta for laid off employees almost makes it nice to be laid off depending on what your personal situation is….. personally wouldn’t mind getting 4+ months of full pay to reset and think about what’s next 😬

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Hi i am deputy manager in State Bank of India with 3 years experience two in probation period and one as a credit support officer . Where I have worked in SME exposure of around 200 crs and been extensively working on credit appraisal, risk assessment, and NPA management along with branch operation . Can someone suggest me what are the leading technologies or certification/courses required in modern day banking especially in credit. And how can we switch to bigger private bank

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What is the coorelation between compensation and happiness?

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Oh just move this damn thing to the senate so we can move on already.

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I got an offer from a startup for 19.5LPA.
Its base is 15L, and I'll be getting 124800 in-hand.

I have 3.5 yoe in typescript/react/NEXTjs fullstack. Out of which only 10 months are on a full time role, rest of time was freelancing.
I am also an open source contributor for some NEXTjs related tooling.

Is this a good offer?

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Anybody here who has done an MBA from INSEAD
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What rights does any employee have if a company changes the comp plan without any communication or signing anything?

Is there a required notification that is necessary before a change?

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Any one can help me to find out the possible data analytics position in big four?

Kickstarter is the first tech company to unionize. How do you feel about this historic step? Will it spill over into consulting? Would you be happy if it did?

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I have one doubt i have 9+ year experience in Mainframe
Now i want to switch to Big Data (Doing some online course)


Is it possible to switch to big data from mainframe
Also how to say in interview rwgarding mainframe and big data


Kindly guide advise please please

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Hi fishes ,
I am looking for job change in TCS noida , profile is linux engineer currently working in hcl having 4+exp total relavent.
Currently working with Zabbix monitoring tool .
Looking for same domain

Can someone please refer me tcs I don't have contacts in tcs.

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Anyone else get anxiety after a hard workout? I start to feel an impending sense of doom, get weird sensations near my sternum, and feel like I'm going to lose control and have a seizure or something bad. I usually get into this mindset thinking that I have some sort of undiagnosed heart defect (I don't) or something is terribly wrong with me and I just don't know what it is yet. It's sucks and is exhausting 🙄

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Anyone else just unable to take criticism well? Especially when it isn’t very constructive? Been working for a few years and I just fold / get crushed when a boss is mad or disappointed in me. Happens rarely but god does it kill me when it does. How do you cope? It makes me want to just quit.

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Honest discussion about burn out: it is with you for the long run.
I burnt out at my last job and the job before that and now I’m at a really good firm that has no set billable hours and a really manageable workload, but it’s still difficult to get any work done. It will take a long time to fully recover from burn out.

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I’ve been feeling really demoralized since working from home. l’ve appreciated any opportunity that helps me expand my network, but I️ feel like I’ve allowed myself to be stretched thin/overworked, and then under preforming for all expectations. I️’ve struggled w understanding priorities in the past, so I️ tell anyone that requests something what my current activities are and who’s requested this. I️ can’t tell if there’s something else I️ should be doing or if I’m being overcritical of myself?

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I'm spending so much money on retail therapy that I cannot afford. I feel stuck in a vicious cycle. I am so miserable with my life and my work that my only escape is spending money.

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Time and time again lately, the people in my life whom I really care about have shown me just how little they care about me. Really hurts, and I’m having a hard time coping.

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I’m feeling burnt out. There’s a ton going on right now but I don’t feel like doing anything at work.

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