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If given a second chance, would you change your gender or remain same?

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I’m curious what it’s like being male, but overall I love being a female

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Same. I’m too girly looking to be a dude.

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I refuse to be a pretty boy! 😤

I am a male but would like to come as a female

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Hmm interesting but did not give a thought yet

I wouldn’t mind peeing standing up.

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I wouldn’t mind having a penis for a few hours. Lol.

Femininity is delicious. I would never.

I generally feel pretty masculine and appreciate my male identity, but if I didn't feel comfortable in my body that way I'd transition. Plenty of people do it later in life because they didn't understand or pushed down their feelings for a long time.

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