If someone ghosts you but you still have an article of their clothing, and they never asked for it back, should you just donate it?

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It’s yours now, so whatever you want with it

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Yes get rid of any negativity

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Yes. Donate, trash, repurpose or whatever you want.

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I have a whole drawer of android chargers I’ve gotten this way. And some spare socks, but I just throw those out

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Seems like an incomplete thought. What did you actually have in mind?

I just don’t know what the appropriate thing to do is in this situation. Ended up throwing it in the trash though

Sell it to a witch

If they ghost you, the ghost that item. What are you trying to hold onto? 🤔

Nothing, I already threw it in the trash. I just hate being wasteful but I don’t want that negative energy in my home

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