If you don’t want to get this family as far away from power as you can’t, I really don’t know what to tell you.

First-gen grad students, does your family put pressure on you to succeed? It feels like our relationship is them just bugging me about my work. I’d love some advice, I miss my fam.

Coming from a family of immigrants and being one yourself, does anyone ever feel a sense of guilt with your success/salary versus your family members? If so, how have you dealt with this? Any suggestions on how to deal with it internally and emotionally?

Does anyone have information about the role of a mediator? I’m trying to find valuable information online about what it’s like and what it takes to become a mediator of any kind and there’s so much space trash out there. Whether it’s in divorce or conflict management or elsewhere, I’m just seeking perspective. Any insight or connections would be appreciated!

Has your wife ever been jealous of your career success? Made it through final round interviews at two firms in the same week. Wife has been acting a bit weird since I told her.

Anyone else moved out with a friend and realised you probably don't wanna be friends after your lease is done

Anyone married but still have feelings about your ex? Like you love your SO but still have lingering feelings?

I've been working remotely for the past two years, and it's been great. I love working from home and being able to watch my kids grow up through their eyes as they play around me. But sometimes, when you're in this kind of situation, it's hard to know what to talk about with your coworkers.

I'm planning on doing a fresh transfer this cycle (today is cycle day 2) with SGF, and they want me on birth control until 9/21. Isn't that too long or is this a normal timeframe?

what are the biggest red flags in a distance relationship? I would say being spotty on communication is the biggest one for me.

Been only 3 days but I miss my BF 😢😭 why am I so needy 😂

Does anyone have experience breaking up w a therapist? I've been seeing my therapist for 5+ years for eating disorder treatment and we've been through so much together, but I don't think she's able to help me anymore. While I've stopped my ED behaviors, they've evolved into OCD, and I'm finding that her methods might be making it worse. I think I want to try an OCD expert instead. But I don't know how to end the relationship. Do I just stop going? Do I explain myself? I don't know what to do 🥺

What’s something your clients wish they would have known before filing for divorce?

Ever since I told my salary to my best friends from high school , she has been giving me bad vibes. She sent me tik toks of why corporate is toxic and how corporate jobs are not better. She got drunk at my place and started saying “I don’t need money , it’s about being spiritual.” She works at the mall and sells food in the side from home, makes no effort to make her business legitimate. I am very humble and don’t deserve haters

Hi All,

Wanted to know from married folks
What's your frequency of having saxx during initial stage of marriage.

Thanks

What are you supposed to do when someone mails you a Christmas card with a picture of their family on it? Can i just text them to say thanks or even better "piss off?"

I don't understand it. In this day and age my true friends I'll either see in a week or two, and can see their family on the gram if I want to. But connections within my profession insist on sending these things every year.

Is this a boomer tradition like working in the office 5 days a week?

Salam everyone, wanted to ask if anyone here is in a relationship with someone close to their age and how they’re navigating it for ex a guy being 22 and the girl being 24. I’ve been advised to find someone 3-4 yrs younger than me because that would make things smoother and there would be less fighting. What are your thoughts? Also I’m Arab and will most likely be marrying an Arab girl if that changes anything.

My SO has severe anxiety which has resulted in a dead bedroom for nearly 2 years. I love her and am being supportive as she works through stuff in therapy but at the same time I also feel very sexually deprived and rejected. Is it alright for me to seek physical satisfaction outside the relationship until we are able to restart our sex life?

How to handle your emotions in a less sex ( not no sex), and low quality sex marriage?

It's emotionally depressing for me when we don't make out, getting ugly thoughts of breaking up.

Although I also do understand this should not be the ground for destroying the family, but the lack of it creates a vacuum in me.

I’d like to preface this post with saying I was in a very toxic relationship previously. I went to therapy, healed myself, and now feel I have found someone very healthy. He self reflects, he listens, he’s present, he makes me feel heard (mostly). With all that said, I can’t stop feeling like he’s only giving me the bare minimum. I do a lot of the small things, make sure I’m hitting all his love languages daily, and I keep feeling like he thinks he’s doing everything to keep me happy, but

Starting new year to fulfill this year a life long dream to work at Microsoft, any mentors working at Microsoft to help / guide for the same ? Thanks in advance!

Imagine if ALL members of your firm were treated equally, with the same amount of respect. Magical things would happen.

Hi Tax Fishies,
Looking for an accounting recruiter or just general job hunting advice, in Houston, TX for a friend who has recently moved here. I know lots of lawyer recruiters, but not connected in the accounting recruitment department. Any recommendations gratefully received, also, if totally not how things are done, that is helpful too. Cheers!

Anyone have a spouse/partner who is a picky eater?

I grew up with two french bodybuilders for parents and enjoy super minimally seasoned, whole, unprocessed foods (yes, we were the weird house for not having goldfish as kids), and I live with my handsome man from a beautiful Mexican family who cook with many flavors but also eat out a LOT.

He is okay about my cooking as it is 90% veggies, but some nights he’s blunt that he’s picky, and I whine about going out. Thoughts?

Hello, what questions are usually asked in a tableau developer interview?

Has anybody faced interviews in Antal international??
Can anybody suggest what questions come around for technical discussions?

Anyone from Boise, Idaho? Looking to move there for a new job. How is the gay scene like?

I work under a man who is a misogynistic a-hole. That is all.

How did the hipster burn his mouth? He ate his pizza before it was cool

Any F up for drinks / dinner tonight? I’ll share more details about myself via DM

Hi Everyone
I am planning to do a short bike ride today evening to Lonavala
Any F interested to accompany me?

Hi Fishes,

I am looking for Data Analyst and Machine Learning fresher position as an intern or fresher. If anyone has any opening, please DM or drop it in comments.

Thanks

Could Richard Deutsch come across as more tone deaf if he tried? Asking for 700 friends.

What’s the real diff w suitsupply styles. Besides size why are some slim 499 but others 999? Anyone have experience w their tailoring. Have heard it’s super pricey

Hi Fishes,

My last working day is 7th October and I have only one offer in hand. I'm trying hard to get some interview scheduled but in vain.

Can anyone please refer me or share some tips on how to get the interviews scheduled?

YOE - 3.2
Non-IT roles
Certified Investment Banker

What's a good vendor for retargeting-through-direct-mail? (User visits website, then we send them a postcard... relating to whatever they browsed, or maybe cart-abandoned). TIA!

Anyone know where I can find (free) response rates by medium for direct marketing?

I never understood why lawyers use so much drugs until I became a partner. I use adderal to stay up for 18 hours a day and a lot of pot to relax and sleep at night. I know understand why drug use is a thing in this profession

Thank you, Mr. President 🙏🏼

Hey you. Yeah, you. What are your thoughts on the filibuster?

Would any lawyers here take on the Trump cases? Politics aside, just talking about the strength of the case

How does the Republican Party pull itself back from the fringe?