If you have an avoidant attachment style, how did you end up getting into a relationship (that lasted)?

Recently joined apple and decided to use one phone for both personal and work: will it be ok for me to continue using apps like Tinder, Bumble for dating purposes (and exchange sexy pictures)? Like will Apple be able to access these data? Also what about iMessages?

Any single women like bread?

Good outdoor date ideas?

Restaurant recos for date night?

Anyone wanna chat with me tonight, if you're bored. M/33 😄😉

Just moved to Dallas - any recos on meeting new people or breaking into the dating scene?

Good place in NYC to take a first date for drinks and food after work excluding anything north of Times Square ready set go

Ok so do dating apps categorize your options based on how you look because I’m starting to think I’m not as attractive as I’ve been led to believe or thought? 😅

Why is this bowl so dead? Let’s start with the usual.. any F fishes here who wanna chat? 29 M here

Confession: never had a sober relationship. Never even dated sober. Newly sober 1 yr & no clue where to start this.

My boyfriend is texting his best friend's girlfriend. He openly says "oh i texted her about x" to me and I believe him...but my concern is that they're going to start some sort of flirtationship. She's some sort of model and has even told her boyfriend that my boyfriend is funny whereas she says her boyfriend is obnoxious. Is this something to worry about? We're not in a great space right now so Idk what to think.

Looking for a drinking buddy next week in Detroit. F. Mid 20s. No hookup.

For the people who dated throughout their 20s, do you feel you would’ve missed out if you met your future partner at 24?

Who wants to link up this weekend, drinks on me. I’m M 🐠 btw

I matched with an AP colleague on Tinder (I am Asc), we like each other, but I am still uncomfortable meeting with him over Tinder. Should I do it or not? 

Would you invite your past hookup in your friend group to your wedding? Fiancé wants to invite this guy from her grad school friend group and they used to hook up. I am opposed because I don’t like him and he never respected me (made me feel invisible when fiancé and I first dated and is still a prick to me). Fiancé thinks it’s harsh if we just leave him out while inviting the rest of her friend group

Just found out someone who I considered a good friend is in the next county over illegally getting her hair done. I’m fuming but do I start a fight with her or just ghost her out of my life?

I keep running into mean girls at work and my social issues hold me back. Don’t know how to deal anymore.

Hi Everyone
I am planning to do a short bike ride today evening to Lonavala
Any F interested to accompany me?

Has anyone worked or interviewed at Nutrafol before ? If so, how’s the company culture there ?

Do we have employee stock purchase plan in IBM? If yes please share the process

So who is hiring Account Executives?

I don't understand the yield increase in the uro bond market. I don't see inflation there for a long time.

Dating a girl - been going great. Suddenly she is saying there’s too much going on in her life (her mum is ill, doing dental training) to go to the next level, but that I’m a great guy anyone would be lucky to bag etc. At the same time she says she wants to stay in touch. I said for her to tell me if she’s not interested and we can leave it - she told me she is interested but the timing is wrong. I said ok let’s leave it - she said it’s my choice (despite inertia from her).what to make of this?

I am planning to join TCS as a lateral (yoe=14) next week. What's the procedures for laptop collection? Do we get it on the first day of joining from office?

Any freeballers here? Down to chat?

What do you all think about travel insurance? My insurance company seems like it has a pretty good coverage option that I'm considering as I'm planning to travel a lot more in the coming months.

Starting conversation with an EY recruiter on an opportunity. I am an experienced Manager with Deloitte, can someone provide an insight into what level in EY I can get into/ negotiate?

I sent an email today. It was 2 lines. That is all the work I did today.
Yesterday I copied 2 slides from a deck into another deck. That was all the work I yesterday.
On Wednesday I had a 30 min call to explain to me the slides I need to and the email I need to send. That was all the I did that day.
For those of you, contemplating still, move to industry and you will realize there’s so much more to life.

Can anyone advise on law enforcement career tracks for very experienced CPAs interested in (but not experienced in) forensic accounting? I am 36 and going to retire at 41 - I’m done being a manager/leader in my current tax consulting profession. If I had known about law enforcement careers in college I would have gone that route but by the time I discovered it later, I wasn’t willing to start over on salary. Now I can do that. I love solving data puzzles and want to spend more time doing that.

Hi,
I have recently received an offer from Infosys for SAPBWHANA associate consultant profile. Can someone please throw the light on growth prospects as I don’t have SAP background. YOE- 2.5 years, MBA

My theory- Vettel was smart to get out of Ferrari with 2021 rule changes, and since it is a ‘level playing field’ he might go to a dark horse minion who might have a ‘Team Brawn’

Anyone know L23 PayPal comp package?

CMT vs CAIA?

I currently work in sales for an asset manager and have an MBA. Would like a designation, one that’s applicable to asset management and has some status/recognition. Appreciate any thoughts or insights. (Also dont want to take CFA)

Any advice for breaking into strategy/consulting from analytics?

New manager going to Dubai!?
Really?
Paisa kisi ka hoga EY ka?

Gift ideas for GF dad? We have been dating a year and a half, I get along with him super well. He is dealing with some medical complications so isn’t to active at the moment but loves cooking and golfing. He is one of those guys who already has everything he needs, and they are super wealthy so I feel bad getting him any clothing or accessories knowing it wouldn’t be as nice as the things he wears, although I know he doesn’t expect anything and would genuinely appreciate anything I got him

I need serious advice, please! Am I wasting my time messaging a guy I matched with online that lives on the opposite coast? Background: we message each other at least 1-2 times everyday for the last FIVE months but never over a phone call. He actually doesn't even have my number. We message on IG. He's a full-time student and full time employee so busy guy. But am I wasting my time and emotions with this guy??

My sister wants me to pay for my father's hospitalization and related costs

My parents planned a trip to the US and never told me. My sister helped then plan. In the US, my father fell sick and had to be hospitalized. They did have travel insurance but there were still a lot of out of pocket expenses and other expenses related to rescheduling tickets, etc.

My sister contacted me once she got the bills and told me "as their son" I should be paying for everything.

What if you don’t like your SO’s friends?

Got out of a toxic relationship that I KNOW was toxic but my heart is still heavy and I want him back. Did anyone experience this? How did you overcome it?

How do I politely hint at a guy I have just started seeing that he is moving to fast? We have only been seeing each other for a couple of weeks and not had any sort of exclusiveness discussions or anything but he is texting and expecting replies multiple times a day (I am currently on vacation away from the city we both live in), planning trips together in several months, letting me know how much he likes and misses me several times a day. I like him but I am starting to feel very overwhelmed.

My boyfriend and I already live together (I moved into his 1BR apartment this year), and we’re excited to get a new place together in early 2023. Any practical tips on how to decide what furniture to keep vs. replace? We’re still renting, so I’m inclined to just keep what we have. What pieces are worth buying new now vs. holding off until we have a more permanent place?

Been dating for a little over a year, but she hasn’t introduced me to her family yet. I don’t have any plans for thanksgiving this year, and she didn’t invite me to spend the holiday with her family (local). Is it still too early or is it a red flag?

How to still feel confident when siblings or cousins significant others are richer and make more money then you? Or what if they are better looking then your significant other?

Alright how many of you have hit up your ex since quarantine? Mine unfollowed my on everything so I congratulated him on LinkedIn for his promotion

For female consultants - anyone experienced with egg freezing? Considering it and looking for practical advice i.e. 1) best locations / clinics globally (quality/cost wise) 2) estimated cost, one off and recurring 3) success in actually conceiving & giving birth 4) dos and donts / regrets 5) any other relevant considerations

Is anyone having second thoughts about their current relationship?

What duration of break is perfect for a couple to figure out if they want to break up or move forward with the relationship? Me and my boyfriend, we fight a lot over petty stuffs and have disagreements over every little things. So, we decided to take a break to decide what’s best for us.

Would you invite your past hookup in your friend group to your wedding? Fiancé wants to invite this guy from her grad school friend group and they used to hook up. I am opposed because I don’t like him and he never respected me (made me feel invisible when fiancé and I first dated and is still a prick to me). Fiancé thinks it’s harsh if we just leave him out while inviting the rest of her friend group

Have you ever rekindled an abruptly ended relationship? What areas of alignment are recommended before embarking on this

How you do you get over trust issues from a previous ex and trust your current SO? My ex cheated on my for months and I caught her by going through her phone and I find myself fighting that urge to go through my current SO’s phone even though I have no reason to.

At this moment, I am almost depressed. I am in a relationship with this guy for 2 years now. In the past 2 years, we have fought more than we have lived days with peace. We both have high ego problems because of which it’s really hard to resolve a conflict. Things have recently escalated to calling names/swearing and even physically abuse from both sides. We both want to end the relationship, have tried so many times, but we cannot.

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Has anyone else told their religious parents that they were moving in with an SO before marriage? I did, it didn’t go super well- they disapprove of it (cont)

My SO had a career change, went back to school, and just started with his new job. He is struggling a bit and is very stressed out. What can I do to help?

Any advice on how to do an organized shared family calendar? My wife and I want to get more sophisticated than a calendar on the fridge. Would love to link to Outlook w/out sharing each other’s work meetings. How do you manage this with your partner?