If you like piña coladas, 40s male and interested in chatting with a 40s lady here, hit me up. (PS I’m a martini girl, but the vibe fit, clearly.)

So...my 3 year old won’t wear clothes. Like none at all. And is suddenly against leaving the house. Is this normal? Tips or advice? I’m dying here.

I’m mid-level in my HR career at my current company and an upcoming Master’s graduate. Studying for my SHRM-CP too. How did you make the transition to that next level? What skills do you need, or is it really just based on YOE (I am the youngest compared to my teammates, many who have 10+ YOE)? I feel like career pathing is not very clear at my company. Each time I ask for guidance on this from my manager, I get told they’ll look into it.... would love some external mentorship and thoughts 🙏🏼

I have a question for my fellow PI paralegals in Texas. TPCIGA requires that we submit all medical bills through the clients insurance before proceeding further. The client in question has Aetna. I sent the bills with a cover letter to Aetna via certified mail. I am having so much trouble getting a status on said claim. Does anyone here have experience with that and can assist me? Any help or guidance is appreciated.

Hello all,

I will soon begin my post grad full time position as a Workday consultant (FIN). Is there any tips and/or advice that you would be able to offer? Such as learning XML, XLST, etc. Thanks so much for any insight!

Facebook wants me to interview for a much lower title than what I currently have at Google. "Without 5 years of experience, your chances are slim for this position" is what they said when I applied. Do they really think that is supposed to entice anyone?

Hi Fishes,

I'm networ security engineer, holding two offers currently.
1. KPMG (payroll marlabs, client will be KMPG ) will be working as security consultant, shift timing flexible and no night shift.
2. Capgemini, cyber security band c1.
Not sure about project or Job role.
YOE : 6.2
Current ctc : 8.7
Current company: AT&T.
Offered both 18 lac.

Can someone please suggest which one best in terms of work life balance, work environment, and technical exposure.

Thanks in advance.

Has anyone been a U.S. Lawyer and tried to practice in England? And any tips for making the transition?

Can anyone please share any insights on the National Federal Tax Services (NFTS) of Deloitte? Such as subgroups, salaries and hours for first year manager? Thanks!

Anyone else take the bar exam after practicing for a while? I took another state bar this past July and just remembered that I get my results tomorrow. Now I’m all distracted and worried I failed. Sometimes I really hate our profession 🙄

FDD Pwc NY, how much 1st year associates making?

Coworker on the phone: “how come every time I have to call you, it’s because of a FUCKING problem?”

Lots of digital coming to PMs that might have not had to deal with it in the past. Fast changing industry too. Where do you find the latest spec updates and news for digital?

I just noticed that an old ECD stole my resume bio (word for word) to put on their LinkedIn.

Thoughts about working for Guidehouse? Experiences?

What’s on your wish list this holiday season?

My OneNote is really disorganized and contains a lot of repetitive info that I don’t bother to look back at them. How do you organize your notes, to do(s), and review points in OneNote?

Can anyone suggest a good online course on organisational psychology.

Do you love Silicon Valley (the HBO show) or hate it? In a contentious conversation with coworkers...

What does it take to switch into a Sale Engineer role? I started my career in tech consulting and then switched to solutions engineering, but not at all on the Sales side of things. I remember working sales when I was in highschool and I loved the rewarding feeling of landing a customer. I'd love to someday switch back into it, since I find myself loving tech but not really the best at it.

Does anyone have a professional side hustle? Closer to white collar stuff than driving Uber or making hand bags, as examples. I need a side hustle that I can do from home.

TIA!

Everybody's NRI in this group or we have some Indians as well..? I'm new to this group and gone through some threads, all the comments suggest peeps are abroad. Prove me wrong please

Just a thought, looking for input.

What good, and bad comes out of corporate lobbying in the US?

I've seen how it can shape some policies at a a federal level, but haven't done much research at the lower levels. All input is welcome. 🙂

I am planning to visit Philly on weekend of 4/16, any F wants to show me around ? I am into food, drinks and historic sites. 33 M

Anyone in Seattle wanna meet for sushi? 40M here.

Is this a theme with people in their 30s? The last two men I went on dates with took things very poorly (& showed their true character) when I politely told them that although I enjoyed their company, I didn’t think there was any chemistry & wasn’t interested in seeing them again.

Any female in PA wanna grab a drink tonight? 38|M

Any F in Minnesota?

Any F in Vegas the coming week attending blackhat/ defco? Wanna grab a drink or a bite and connect? M 36 here and would love to spend an evening in the sin city.. HMU

40M. Anyone in Boston?

Early 30’s(M). Successful career, comfortable income owns a home. never been in a relationship. I am shy of talking to girls. Friends suggested to get on dating apps go on dates etc., to overcome shyness. No Match for last 6 months. My friends say that I look great in person than in photos. Not sure where the problem is but Its burning inside tbh.

35M here - any F interested to chat? Please DM

Turning 30 tomorrow! Looking forward to a better decade.

At 30, if you’re living under your parent’s roof but you’re supporting them, do you consider them to be living with you? Or are you still telling others that you live with them?

Any interest in a WhatsApp group chat?

Why are my 35+ single ladies doing on this Friday evening?

34/M here. Had an uncontested dissolution in October, shortly after began dating someone I’d met a couple months earlier. She’s 35/F - I think she’s absolutely fantastic and we’re a wonderful fit. Asked her to move into my apartment with me last week - she’s in agreement but others have told me to “take it slow.” What do you think, am I moving too fast?

I miss the 90s

Still struggling a bit w breakup from early December. I posted earlier abt the guy who wanted me to dress femmy/sexy and ignored my issues. 3 months. I made a list of the top 5 reasons it wasn't working out for me and still I'm second guessing myself. I did break up by phone and felt good about it. I clearly told him the reasons. He called back abt hour later and ended up yelling at me about Jackie O and Audrey Hepburn's style and saying he wouldn't call again. Cont'