If your partner still sees their ex as a “friend “ would you believe them? I am having a very hard time accepting. Need tips to get over it? My partner is not constantly in touch with them but def end up meeting as part of their friend circle atleast once a month

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I don't think exes should or can be friends. Having a cordial equation if they inevitably bump into each other due to a common friend circle is fine, but anything too often beyond is a strict no. You should have a conversation with your spouse about this and be upfront about how you feel.

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IMO your partner should avoid meeting or limit conversations to formal hi/hello; anything beyond that is stupidity, friendship means being disrespectful to you.

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Mera aise hi Kata tha, you have been warned.

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Your partner definitely likes your ex still...

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