If you're negotiating a start date with a new firm and you need to give your current firm 2 weeks and want some time to yourself before starting, but you already have a vacation planned in the early fall, is it an issue to take 2-3 weeks before starting as long as you're clear that you have a pre-planned trip?

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Just push your start date back and enjoy the time off. You will likely never have the type of free time again. Enjoy it, get relaxed and refreshed before your new job

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I did this before starting my new biglaw job and was transparent about it. They were totally cool with it.

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