I’ll probably be alone this Christmas and I’ve been living alone during Covid. I’ve been fine and done tons of hobbies but thinking about spending the holidays alone is getting to me. Anyone else feeling this? I feel like telling my family I don’t want to join any zoom things and just skip Christmas this year. I’m mentally exhausted.

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I’m also going to be alone and I am delivering meals to families in need on Christmas via a local organization. I did the same on Thanksgiving. I don’t know if you have an opportunity to do that in your area, but it was so rewarding. This is a difficult time - thinking about you and others that will feel alone over the holidays.

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I don't have an brilliant advice, but wanted to say you're doing the right thing and I hope you can have a decent holiday weekend. I'm going to be alone as well. It's a hard year but hang in there!

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My parents are in US and I’m not flying home either. We should search for others who are also spending Christmas alone and set up a zoom call on Christmas Day. Or have a WW 1984 watch party.

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I love this idea!

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I was alone for thanksgiving and will be alone for Christmas and New Years too. Totally understand how you’re feeling. I’m moving at the beginning of January, so I’m planning to treat Christmas as just a long weekend to pack. I love Christmas, so I wish I didn’t have to treat it that way, but I feel like I need to out of self-preservation.

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Can you fully quarantine and then spend the day/days with family or a fried pod that has also fully quarantined for a week prior?

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Family lives in another country and most friends are out of town

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Me too. I've spent many years alone. I try to tell myself it's ok, it's just another day but it creeps up on me. I end up spending it crying and yearning for the days when I had someone to share with. If not working I can't seem to find the energy to do anything but sit here, in silence.

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Yep. I’m married but both my husband and I are expats. We always FaceTime at least one side of the family but this year when I associate screens with work or anxiety scrolling, the last thing I want to do is be on a zoom.

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Same here! I’m back in the office & if I fly home I’d have to quarantine and would be unfair to my coworkers. I spent TG alone & it was fine, but I really love Christmas and being by myself is just different. I want to bother my siblings on early Christmas morning :(

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Take a vacation. Christmas is just another day

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Same here. My family is in another country and frankly, I gave up on my feelings. This year brought loneliness and distance but I would suggest focusing on some positive thoughts and start designing something fun for the next holidays. I'm skipping all zooms (they are sad, nobody can deny it!) as well.
Take a chance to do some self-care actions. I found it helpful. Stay strong and if you want a homemade meal hit me up! We both live in NYC

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