I'm 1 out of 4 siblings, I make the most out of my siblings, do you sometimes double down or not share your accomplishments with your family to NOT seem you are "showing off"? Or should I just live my life?

Do you tell your boss you’re going through a breakup? I’m phoning it in and obviously going to be camera off for awhile.

I have 1 one year old and have told my husband that I want to get divorced. He is being immature about the process and is just trying to make everything difficult. Sometimes he says he will move out, then he says the baby and I should, sometimes he says he wants custody when the real reason im leaving is his lack of interest amd resppnsibility toward our family. I can tell he is hurt and is upset that i dont love him anymore and want to get everything ready to make the exit easy. How do I start?

Unsure if my bf and I are incompatible or if I’m not compromising enough. How do you know the difference? He has so many great qualities that I love but also lacks some qualities that I would like to have but idk if I would be giving up on someone that is great for little things.

My SO is scared to ask his parents for his money back. The money they were holding on to for him. Now that he’s a grown man I think he’s old enough to hold on to his own money. He like needs a valid excuse to ask for it back and I’m like why do you need an excuse when it’s your money and he’s like well I don’t want to start a fight…. And the last time he spoke to his parents about it apparently there’s been some mix ups and so they need to sort thru what’s his etc. (CONT’d in comments)

Very weird question to ask. 😄
Has anybody tried and tested ways to have a particular gender kid? I see chinese calendar theory and some sperm race thing.. lol. Planning baby *2 and hoping for the opposite gender of baby 1. Before anyone comes at me, we just would like to have one of each, and are not gender biased. 😊

I'm really struggling with depression as my husband of 7 years asked for a divorce a few weeks ago. We are still sleeping in the same bed and living together but aren't really talking or anything else. He moves out the end if this month and I move back woth my parents the end if November. I feel so overwhelmed and hurt.

Is a post-PhD gap year to travel and be reminded of what life is like a bad idea?

Read your childrens’ diaries every week. That way you know if you’re not giving them enough privacy.

Dual working fams - if you have a nanny when are you planning to bring them back to your house??

I’m trying to figure out if my girlfriend is emotionally abusive. We took a trip out of town and when she saw the Airbnb, she called me a horrible person and said it was a reflection of what (cont)

Moved to the DC area about two years ago and have yet to establish myself friendwise. I usually tag along with my partner to all of his events as I’m traveling 5 days a week and have no forum. Any...

Best states for adoption if you're in a same-sex marriage?

Anyone proposed to your SO that you dated for under a year? How did that play out in the long run?

Reunited with an ex and things moved very fast with the two of us spending a lot of time and nights together but we waited to consummate the “relationship”. Recently, he shared that he wasn’t in a position to be in a relationship right now and felt like he didn’t have enough to offer me but he cared deeply for me and was very attracted to me. Admittedly, he isn’t financially well-off and is heading back to school to finish his degree (we’re in our 30s) but it still hurts a lot.

I have a baby of 15 months. She is very introvert and start crying if any of friends comes to visit. Can any one suggest things what I can do to make my baby extroverted?

What are we supposed to do with our kids during Winter break when school is closed for TWO WEEKS and we need to hit our billables?

Am I right to feel like my partner doesn’t love me after 4 years of dating when they say they don’t want to marry me if I don’t win the H1-B lottery next year? They say they’re not ready to “settle” but they still love me and I’m feeling disappointed and not sure what to make of this

Hey sweet ladies, C (26 male) this side. Hope you are keeping safe and healthy!

About me? People usually say I am their go to person for when they need emotional support, advise about relationships and when they feel low, maybe because I help them cheer up again and be the ear they need.

I am a great listener too. I can go on listening to you if you feel low, won't say a word until you are finished, will hold your hand when you are done and try to bring your sweet smile back!
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Op-Ed: As a black man with parents from Africa, I feel like Black people have been receiving reparations for decades now. Any further reparations are most likely going to be a waste of resources and regressive—especially if their fiscal.

Take someone like me:

A. Grew up in a single parent home with six brothers.

B. Had to move eight times in eight years because we were always renting a house.

C. I have three brothers who are either in jail or is a recovering addict.

But me (cont’d)...

Feel stuck professionally. Moved to an internal role due to circumstances. Salary has been practically flat since. Tried to get promoted last year, didn’t happen. Trying to find a new job since...

Had anyone flexed in streetwear for their consulting engagements? I occasionally wore my Yeezy Triple Black 350s with my suit to the office, then changed into dress shoes at the office 😂

22/M and just starting out with Deloitte this week. Any recommendations? Jzk for the help

Does anyone have any tips or insights on certifications or skill training I should invest in to help make me more recession-proof?

How's Accenture banking strategy from a roles & base pay perspective? I'm interviewing for a strategy manager role in Canada with 6yrs consulting experience and 10yr overall experience

Any AI / ML or data science references
I've 4.7 yoe in data science and ML
Can join in 20 days

Optum vs LTIMindtree

In terms for growth, WLB, flexibility, job security.

Optum - 19.16 (15% variable + pf)
LTIMindtree (21.50 fixed LPA )

Salary band for risk management senior associate at capital one ?

So anxious about upcoming CFA exam can't even sleep.

Decided that I’m leaving audit today. Trying to understand the full range of opportunities in forensics. Will have my CPA and CFE. So far, I understand that there are client-serving firms like FTI and then the B4 will have forensics arms as well. What are some other forensic accounting roles? Pros and cons? Better than audit? Honestly just looking to learn anything.

One watch collection: BB58 Blue vs BB58 original (black/gilt)?

ELI5 - brokers fees. Why would I want to go with a broker?

Hi All,

I have got an offer of 9lpa from tcs.

How much inhand salary can be upto

How much does a product developer for a commercial insurance company make?

What’s your favourite bar in NYC? Planning a small get together for 8-10 people and want to make sure it’s a crowd pleaser. Group is 25-30 if that helps.

Anyone know the team handling the Trump case?

I’m a first-year associate. I love tattoos; the ones I have are covered. I want to get one on the back of my neck. I don’t face clients except on Zoom, is it still a bad idea? Would love to hear everyone’s thoughts.

Do you wear your heels to happy hour?

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In the past, lawyer wellness and lawyer discipline/character fitness for bar applicants have existed in silos. I’d like to finally form a bridge between lawyer disciple and lawyer wellness and focus on prevention. When we think of lawyer discipline, we automatically think of outrageous behavior like stealing money. Those are extreme. The common cases are too stressed out and forgetting deadlines or death of a loved one and not having time to call clients back. Cont’d

Considering quitting my 350k-a-year gig to start my own firm. Am I crazy for doing this in this environment?

Let's share the wins y'all! Please share one accomplishment from this week or month, big or small!

I'm considering helping a family friend out, have you ever represented someone pro bono? What are things to be mindful of?

I’m in desperate need of a job. Please share and/or comment. I’ll appreciate any referrals. I’m in the DMV area, and I’ve an LL.B. and 5 years experience as a paralegal in different areas of the law. I’m open to in-house and remote/hybrid openings in the NJ/NYC area. Thanks!

What’s the number 1 reason why you haven’t (or didn’t in the past) sought out support for your mental well being?

Is anybody going to CYOC? I would be a first timer.

How many hours of sleep do you all get? It's been hectic and I found myself averaging 4-5 hours a night

Last week, I mentioned that I needed to take an appointment (my therapy appointment) this Wednesday at noon. I also mentioned that this is a medical appointment, and I don’t feel comfortable moving the appointment. I just received an email that I need to be available. How can I stick to my boundary?

What is everyone wearing for shoes today?

I’m a newly barred attorney in Atlanta, Ga and I need two things: (1) a mentor who has time to be a mentor; and (2) a job opportunity. I am open to being a staff attorney or junior associate. CAN YALL HELP ME PLEASE.

Anyone work at a midsize to big law firm in an office with no other Black people? If you do, how did you end up connecting well with your partners and colleagues?

My office is having a barbecue at one of the supervisors houses. It starts at 4 pm. what time should I show up? Social norms say arrive 30 minutes to an hour after a party start time but it’s since it’s a work party, what is the social norm for social work events?