I’m 25 and no one has ever told me they love me. My parents are nice people but aren’t really expressive or are emotionally giving and have no idea what’s going on with me. I’ve been in 2 relationship

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S one of them was abusive and they both ended in cheating. I feel like my friends don’t like me. I’ve never felt so unloved. The only thing that keeps me going is my love for myself but I’m getting exhausted and think I’m flawed because everyone thinks I’m cool but no one really likes me or loves me

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I am sure people love you. Try saying it to people you love and you will be surprised who says it in return. I probably never said it, or rarely, at 25 to my friends. In my mid-30s, I say it not often to let the real people in my life know. Also, therapy may be useful for you to sort through those feelings

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OP, send me a DM. Happy to talk to you about this.

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