I’m 27 and think I’m starting to resent my girlfriend that I’ve been dating since I was 18

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But why? Did something change? Since when did you start feeling this way? Did you give up something important in your life for her?

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Wow took a long time

Ummmm, same boat as you m. But, I am starting to resent my bf of 7 years. It’s getting so bad, I can’t stand being near him. Everything he does angers me. We can chat about it, if you’d like lol

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