I’m 31 weeks pregnant, exhausted & just not feeling great. I’ve been able to wfh 2 days per week until a few days ago when the managing partner of my office told me I have to be back 5 days per week for various reasons (we have a lot of new people, etc) & mostly I truly believe it’s bc he never liked me wfh and is using these as excuses. I’m more than upset by this and idk what to do. He’s difficult to deal with to begin with. Advice?

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Get a note from doctor that says you need to wfh 2-3 days a week. Give it to hr and say you need this accommodation.

Working from home helped me tremendously while pregnant with both my kids.. and helped me bill more since I was at home and could take breaks and work as needed

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Ask for a pregnancy accommodation to wfh, whether or not you can get a Dr's note. I doubt they want to be the test case for whether wfh is a reasonable accommodation post-covid. I'd find a article written on this topic (I know they are out there), and conveniently leave it laying on my desk.

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Agree with everything above. But also - look to lateral, my friend. That sounds like an extremely toxic environment and you will be better off someplace else once LO is here. Congratulations on your impending arrival. Being a mom is the absolute best blessing in life. Hugs.

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echoing to get your OB to write a note that you need wfh accomodation.

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