I’m 31 yrs old and husband is 33 yrs old. I got married at age 29, we are trying for kids for almost 10 months, has early miscarriage back in June 2020, it was lasted for only 5 weeks. We completed all RE preliminary test, all my tests(ovaries, FSH,AMH, thyroid and some other tests suggested by RE) came normal. My husband semen was tested and RE said his motility and sperm count is low (he don’t drink and smoke, and healthy). Please suggest if I need to go with IUI or IVF. Feeling so depressed 😭

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IVF with ICSI to help with the fertilization, plus PGT-A testing to weed out abnormal embryos to bolster chances of avoiding miscarriage. Good luck!

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And genetic carrier screening tests for you and your husband, to check for genetic diseases that you could potentially pass down to the embryo

If motility and count are both low, probably IVF. But obviously a Dr/RE would know best! Good luck

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if money is not an issue, i would encourage IVF (ICSI) and not waste time with an IUI

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IVF may be the best direct route. IUI may be a waste of time and energy at this point. IVF with FET. Good luck!

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Second this! RE's will recommend IUI bc it's cheaper and less invasive, but when I pushed back and asked if we could skip it, he was thrilled.

I was diagnosted with PCOS, HSG confirmed a blocked tube, husband count was low… we tried IUI and it worked. I’m 26 weeks today! I wouldn’t say IUI is a waste of time, it just takes ONE!

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I agree! I thought it was too initially but we tried it once and it worked for us.

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My husband had low sperm count and they put him on clomid - we had success with our first IUI. I recommend giving it a try… IVF is a long road.

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Did they suggest surgery? My husband had something similar they did routine surgery and his counts went up significantly. Trying naturally still didn't worked for us but IUI did.

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