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I'm a blonde, fit, average height girl. How come every time I go out, the only people to hit on me are brown? That's not my type, and I don't know how to attract my type apparently....?

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No... I never said all brown guys are creeps. For the third time, I said from my observations and my experience, I've noticed that brown guys seem the most forward and shameless. I see this literally every time I go out (I live in a major city) and even when I go to the gym at my apartment and see brown guys literally just standing there staring at girls work out. Maybe it has to do with a different culture that objectifies women? I don't know. But I can say without hesitation that the overwhelming majority of unwanted advances I get are from creepy brown guys. Maybe you'll call it stereotyping, but even stereotypes don't arise without some sort of frequency of observations or statistical backing. As consultants, we are all (hopefully) data-driven enough to not miss what's right in front of us.

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All brown guys are horny for blondes just like all blondes are dumb, all blacks lazy, all Jews cheap and all whites from the south - red necks. I honesty believed education and exposure were the key to a society that sincerely embraced diversity (one of the perceived draws to consulting for me) a society that wouldn't judge based on race. I am truly sympathetic to PwC4 and OP. You will miss out on the most expansive experiences of your life cuz of your mentality, and the worst part about it is, you won't even know what you'll miss out on.. I am the first to go to college from a family that took pride in their prejudices on the dinner table. I thank God everyday he had me in the right mindset when I met all the aforementioned races/groups of ppl to have create some of the most impactful and long lasting relationships from at least 1 representative of each of them. I genuinely wish you two the best of luck!

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Try Craigslist. It's what you deserve.

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#racist

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I think she's allowed to have a type. That doesn't make her racist. What about all the white guys that have yellow fever. Are they all racist too? It's about preference not discrimination. Btw I'm an Asian woman and I prefer to date Asian men.

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This has got to be a troll. Refuse to believe that someone intelligent enough to be a consultant can be this ignorant

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So... We're all just gonna breeze by "the brown people have nothing to lose" and "they know you're out of their league" comments...

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Put a sign on your forehead that says "Not down with brown".

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Yeah if he was a NBA/NFL player he'd be "just" your type then huh? Fuck off

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OP would have been well served to leave brown out of it and just say guys who are not my type.

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I thought I had a type until I met my wife - who was not my "type" - and "type" become unimportant

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Why does having a type make me racist? Same as if you prefer brunettes over black hair?

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From observations and personal experience, brown guys seem to be the most forward and the least shameless. They know you're out of their league but they go for it anyways 🙄

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How the fuck do I unfollow this post?

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<insert demand for fishbowl tinder>

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PwC4 what makes you think OP is out of every brown guy's league...

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Yeah unfortunately my type is all shy and immature too. That's why I became a lesbian tbh

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U need to date a black guy

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Eh it's just preference. But anyway are you waiting for dudes to hit on you? You should go talk to guys who are your type.

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Brown guy here. OP did not sound racist, the bunch of other comments like P4 did. She never said mean or derogatory things. We'll have a preference. I like Taylor Swift and Emma Watson but that doesn't mean I'm racist towards white people or like everyone who's white. Date whom you want.

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Okay. You're speculating that there is a monolithic "brown culture" that objectifies women more than the monolithic "white culture. There is no monolithic culture for any color. Suggesting that there are such monolithic "cultures" and attributing negative traits to one is racist. That is a racist thing to say. I am not saying you are a racist; I am saying that that's a racist thing to say.

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