i’m a female fish in a happy relationship. went out to a bar solo last night to just get out the house and chatted it up with a couple of (hot) dudes.

invited me to hang out with them and some of their other friends at a game bar today. they’re only in the city temporarily and it feels very platonic, so it wouldn’t be weird if i go right? i get a buzz by being around attractive people just like everyone else but would never cheat on my bf

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If you’re committed to your relationship why are you flirting elsewhere? Get your act together.

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Ehhhh, this is a slippery slope and you need to figure out would you be ok if your partner did the same thing? What happens when the flirting gets intense, are you being honest with yourself that you would stop it and leave? Is them being in town temporarily another check mark in your brain of getting a hot hookup with no possible consequences.

They want you and will jump if you give them the signal. They may even react even if you don’t realize you are putting out that vibe so be honest with yourself, realllllly honest.

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Please don't act dumb, OP.

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