I’m a late bloomer. Never really dated. Went on a date with a mutual friend. Could see myself with her, but after Covid and all, really want a summer to just have fun and date around. Not looking to put up the numbers in the body count thread, but would like to experience a bit more before settling down. Am I being an ass?

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You’re not being an ass. But your assuming a lot. It may not work out with your friend. She may not want to settle down with you. Your summer of casual fuckery could fail to materialize. Maybe explore the opportunity infront of you. Could lead to exactly the fun you want to have ...

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You went on one date. Even if you continued dating her this summer you could still date others. Normally people don't determine if they're settling down with someone after one date - especially since it's her decision, too.

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Agree w/ some of the other comments here that you’re probably overthinking it. It’s just one date, keep dating her if you want but keep yourself open to other people until you want to be exclusive. She might be dating other people as well. You really don’t know. So I’d just be open to everything at this point. If the topic of being exclusive comes up, be HONEST about where you’re at and what you want. And you’ll KNOW when you get there (but that topic might not come up at all or might not come up for a while).

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I’m an over thinker too so I get it :) hope you have a fun summer getting to know yourself and other people!

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depends on what your intent is. do you want to meet lots of people so you can figure out what kind of people you’re interested in? or do you just want to have stupid fun? either way you’re not an ass.

you’d just be an ass if you were looking to build up your “body count” numbers like you said you aren’t. i think you’re good.

just don’t expect to end up with the mutual friend. maybe you will, but who knows. just don’t expect to date around then come back to them.

depends how risk averse you are. do you worry more about “what if i missed meeting someone else” or “what if i missed staying with this person”?

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Age?

I’ve dated but never really been in a 6+ months or longer relationship.

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My gf has only experienced one other man.. and it shows ):

Please go live life! Experience other perspectives. We’re literally made to reproduce.. have fun! 😉

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