I’m an introvert in strategy consulting, working in US, born in India. I find it difficult to host client meetings - how to drive conversation, fill in the pauses, and help drive the group move towards next steps consensus. It’s not that I don’t know how, it’s that I doubt myself, and my language skills. I see some other SC/Ms just repeating what others said, and just talking too much of what’s already known - and they are appreciated. How do I reach a stage where I am able to do this better?

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I am an introvert as well. Do you have a clear agenda or objectives for the meetings you host? I find that structure helps me drive, document decisions, and align on next steps.

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I do have an agenda and objectives.. in internal Deloitte calls I’m able to manage it. But with clients, sometimes the conv goes out of hand and I’m not able to bring them hack to this.

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