I'm being mansplained at work frequently. All of my requests are ignored for me to do my job until a man is Cc'd on the email. Now I've been red flagged for bringing this to management's attention 😳

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Seriously there seems to be a large culture problem there, among other problems. Probably best to plan your exit.

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