I’m feeling very distraught about my SO needing to move back to her home country soon. We plan to get married, but due to Covid and the visa process, I may not see her again until end of 2021. I’m crying like a baby man, this hurts a lot

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Marry her and Get on 90 day fiancé for additional spending 💵💵💵💵

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Marry her then. 🤣

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Move with her

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do a fiancée visa and make her stay back. Or rather marry her... 🤷🏻‍♀️..

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Marry her. Next week and get that visa in process

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That's rough. But I think we'll be able to travel in a few months. Dont lose hope

Court wedding

I’m so sorry.

Thx 🐠 but she needs to return home to discuss the marriage with her parents- we can’t do it over video call. Once she goes back the visa process takes 9-10 months. I could go with her, I need to think about that

Why don’t you guys go to court and get married. Then you can apply for change of status on her visa and she can go home and deal with whole thing. I assume you guys are going to marry regardless or she has spoken with her family and they are ok with. If you guys are sure you want to and will get married, complete the papers work and have her visa changed before she leaves US. The embassies and immigration department is so backed up due to the COVID 19, it may take 1.5 to 2 years before she could even get back. My family’s members visa are approved for months and they can’t even get interview date because of embassy closures.
I would not take the risk as long as you guys are ready but that’s just me. Good luck op

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It is really easy to get ordained online. It took me like 5 minutes. Have a close friend marry you!

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