I’m going through a massive depressive episode and floundering. Can barely get out of bed, crying constantly. Talking to a therapist, but nothing is helping. Currently at a startup without ability to take LOA. Want to resign, but don’t want to kill my career. Not sure what to do. I just want to give up. Any advice would be helpful.

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I have almost daily nervous breakdowns. Your worth is not equivalent to your job. What I try to think of is I have health, a meal to eat, and a roof over my head, but I still feel the same emptiness. I hope you find peace OP. Message me if you need

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Hit me up, I just recovered from one a couple of days ago. More than happy to chat. You’re not alone.

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Feel free to DM me. I was there many times and happy to share some general thoughts/tips to help you.

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