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I've got an offer from Netcracker recently.
Based on the salary discussion, HR released the offer with 2Lakh less as promised and now telling me over and over again that they will revice it near the joining date and this is the process they follow for every candidate so that they don't go and shop in the market.Do you think I should trust them as they haven't given me anything in written but keeps on promising me over phone calls that closer to my joining date they will revise the offer.
She's not happy that only one day left before Monday
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Good luck. I'm doing it next week too.
Good luck OP! It’s much better on the other side, but have some compassion for your family. We often expect people to come to terms with this very quickly when for many of us it took years to come to terms with our authentic self. I am sure they love you, but they may need some time to process and adjust their dreams for you. We are all here for you!
I couldn’t do it. My family lives in another city and they were commuting every time I called them. Hopefully today! 😓
Guys I have news! I did it. I texted my sister but not my mom yet. She sent me the most beautiful and understanding response within 3 minutes.
P. S. This is in response to my coming out message so it is contextual.
“I don’t feel anything different at all. I feel bad that it has been so hard for you. Don’t want you to struggle anymore. I strongly think one should lead life freely and not be subject to any societal pressure. Of all people, I want you to be the happiest. So I don’t care about anything else.
I am just happy you are finally able to accept yourself . Can’t imagine all the struggle . Don’t worry about anything . Sometimes we need time but I’m always there for you.”
I’m relieved but I don’t think I can pick up the phone and talk to her. I feel it will be awkward, embarrassing, and weird.
This is awesome! Congrats on taking this step. Your sister sounds amaze, and no matter what happens now, you can always rest assured that you have someone in your corner who will side with you. Don’t think things will be weird at all based on her very understanding message. Congrats, we’re all happy for you! You made my morning 😊🌈
Thank you everyone! I still haven’t done it. It’ll be in a few hours.
Waiting for it !! Hope all good !!
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How'd it go OP? Remember we are here to support through every course of possibility. Sending loads of support and love.
Good luck OP. Those that care don’t matter. Your happiness comes first. 💛✨
Happy birthday and good luck, OP! Good vibes being sent your way!! ❤️
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Good luck OP!!!
Good luck! Today is emotional, tomorrow it becomes a lot easier
Yassss! A rebirthing of sorts.
Best of luck OP! I posted something very similar two years ago and the outpouring of support from this app was amazing. If you’re comfortable sharing, we’d all love to hear an update. Wishing you only the best!
I would try to tell your parents in person. I know it raises the bar emotionally but they will replay this conversation for years to come.
I think this is true in an ideal world but sometimes you just need to get the words out and a call or whatever else is easier (and then you can let those in-person conversation happen shortly after once that initial weight is off your back). That’s how I did it anyway because I couldn’t summon the balls otherwise, and it all worked out so I’m glad I did 🙉
I agree with ATK1. I had to schedule a time when I had my parents on my turf, with no schedule pressure, when I could control the situation. They came to visit me for lunch, and we had a good uninterrupted two hours together after lunch to talk, cry and hug. It’s an emotional and intense process and can not be rushed in a suboptimal situation
:) happy birthday! Keep us updated!
❤️ good luck!