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there’s a difference between being desired and valued
Sure, I get that. I don’t mean being desired as a purely physical function. I mean being wanted as a person.. I am not sure I can put into words what I’m thinking here.
How are you married then? Did you not date and get pursued by your spouse?
Op , it almost sounds like you are missing out on some excitement even though you’re in a good marriage .
This is not the romanticized vision you’ve painted for yourself. Those of us out there dating for years would much rather have what you have.
I’ve been the pursuer in past relationships, and I sort of lost myself. They didn’t work out because I was molding my interests and identity around what the other person wanted.
This is not meant to invalidate your feelings in any way. Just came here to say your situation would be a positive for me, personally.
“Being pursued” is some hallmark fantasy that doesn’t exist. If you want to go out with someone then just ask that person out (doesn’t matter if you’re male or female)
I know what you’re saying, kinda in the same boat.
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