I'm having a hard time with the fact that my partner is still employed but I am not. I feel like I'm going crazy and getting needy.

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This is so hard - I struggled with this a lot when I was unemployed and my SO was working. It didn't get better until I started volunteering and filling up my schedule with things I felt were worthwhile. This was obviously pre covid, though.

I hope you're able to feel less needy again soon. If it is any consolation, I'm working full time and quarantine is making me feel more needy, too.

Let me know if you get some good tips!

Is your day occupied with productive stuff? If not, thats probably it.

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