I’m in a weird situation. I agreed to a mutual departure from my company. At least that’s how it was framed to my team. But in reality I was forced out en route to getting terminated. My replacement is from offshores and this is known to the team. Do I tell my colleagues and friends what actually transpired? Do I leave into the abyss and hope the story holds? Right now everyone seems happy for me that I’m moving on to greener pastures. I’m just worried the story won’t hold.

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Why does it matter to you if the story holds? We can't always control th narratives about us, and in this case, it sounds like any sort of explanation on your part will actually make you look bad tbh.

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And I would tell my friends. But true friends. Not quasi coworker friends that you won't keep in touch with by next year. Hey, they might even help make sure that narrative is positive when you're not around, assuming they are good friends/further colleagues.

But honestly, don't worry about it. if you maintained positive relationships and good work product up until you were asked to leave, that's what your coworkers will remember.

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So they scammed you out of severance?

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Glad to hear! Would be a bummer to see this peeps get screwed especially during this time.

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Who cares if the story holds.

I sincerely and publicly thank IBM and PwC for firing me so I could make 200k more at FAANG. I which I was smart enough to leave on my own accord but your insight that I was too talented for your organization propelled me to greater heights

/s. Kinda.

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Grats for succeeding, what’s the role you moved to?

I think that's just how a lot of people get laid off. Just take your severance and move on.

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