My baby was recently diagnosed with cancer and is going to be going through over a year of chemo. Does anybody have any experience with this situation?
It’s going to be a tough year, but id of course do anything for this little nugget.
Not sure what I’m looking for here… maybe just an outlet…any words of encouragement/ advice would be extremely welcome!
I’m 31 weeks pregnant so everything makes me super emotional right now. I just overheard a co-worker basically brag that by the time he gets home every night his kid (3 year old) is already asleep. The thought of that made me cry. I really don’t want to get home every night to my kid already sleeping. When do attorney-parents find time to actually be with their kids?!?
Would love to get thoughts on hiring a nanny. Planning on going back to work on the next couple of months and would love any thoughts on: hourly pay, hours (always 40 hrs or have you been able to make 30 hours while working 40+ work to save $$?), acceptable tasks outside of child care (while baby is napping), how to handle pay structure for nanny when out-of-state grandparents want to stay and watch baby for extended visits, etc. Any recommendations appreciated!
Wife got a LinkedIn message from a recruiter for a position that she's extremely interested in, BUT she's currently pregnant. How is this percieved considering she'll take maternity leave in 6 months?
About to enter my third trimester and might be getting vaccinated today. Am very nervous and going back and forth about it. If I don’t go it’s very likely I won’t have another chance until after the baby. I have antibodies from about a year ago but am unsure how long those will last. Any pregnant moms gotten the vaccine? I’m truly stuck and scared the make the wrong decision long term for my baby.
How do you keep your spirits up during these times( every little thing is magnified during COVID). Came down with a tummy upset and it worries me to think how will my kid manage as he dotes on me. Hubby is helpful but has a busy schedule. Trying to feel hopeful 🙏because ofcourse the worries get magnified as long as COVID exists.
I recently accepted a job offer at my dream firm where one of the partners contacted me about the position out of the blue. At that point my husband and I had an appointment with a fertility specialist because we were unsuccessfully trying to get pregnant. Now I'm so torn about waiting to go through with the fertility treatments until after I've been at the firm for a while. How long do you think we should wait to start the treatments?
My 10 month old baby was hit by a car yesterday. He was in the stroller, our au pair was crossing at a crosswalk with him - the car had slowed down and at the last min decided to not stop...
Can we pay rent to our parent?
What if my parents are in other city and I am living @ my company's location which are 700km away from each other. Can I still show that I am paying rent to my parent?
Please help as this is my first time coming under tax slab
I had a dream that my ACD and I were in love. I see this man as a father figure, at most. Sigmund Freud, explain.
Advice please: I currently make $80k at a small firm in SoCal. I’ve been incredibly overwhelmed by my caseload and hands-off approach by my boss given that I’m still a “baby attorney.” Had an interview today with another firm that offers more money, lower billable req (below my current 2100+), will ease me into a caseload rather than just throw me into one (I walked into a 20+ caseload on day 0), and will be more hands on. Benefits are the same but higher pay (cont.)
How many people changed careers or wanted to change careers as soon as you returned from maternity leave? You or people you know? I couldn’t care less about advertising right now. Does that feeling go away?
Is anyone else pregnant and expected to go to in person meetings all of a sudden? Even though NYC is high alert still? I’m nervous about being toward the end of my pregnancy and having to take my mask off to present, or eat, etc. How are you handling?
Can sit for CFP vía challenge route bc Im a CPA. Wife/baby due in April, have April 15th tax deadline, and all of my continuing education is due by the end of March. Is it suicide to test in March?
Does anyone have an example of a motion to hold proceeds from the sale of the marital estate in one of the attorney’s trust accounts pending resolution of the divorce? Baby lawyer trying to figure out what type of motion it would be - motion for protective order (to protect assets), etc. Any help appreciated!
Me: Does the attractiveness of the nanny we hire matter to you?
My wife: No way! So long as the baby is taken care of, I don't care how sexy he is.
What’s the typical maternity leave in NJ?
Recently had our first child. It's really making me think twice about my career path. For those of you with kids, is the job worth it? I feel like I'm losing out on so many memories already.
For the StateFarm Spotify commercial that is “I hit a car ooh baby it’s gonna be okay my agent is going to help me” what 90s song are they parodying?
My mother just sent me a bitmoji and it looks just like her. My life is complete. But who taught her how? 🤔😂
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People saying crypto currency is gonna die …. Just go to a grocery store in Texas to deposit lol
Double dates are so underrated
I am planning to apply to a role at Deutsche Bank who is my current client. However I was asked to submit my application internally using my db email address. Anyone knows if my current project lead will be notified if I submit my application? If yes, at which stage? Is it better to apply it using my own email address?
Anyone in Michigan? Looking for what range to ask but coming from NY. 5 hrs exp. looking at either agencies or automotive.
I have almost 2.5 years exp in IBM as a React Js Front end Developer.. Looking for referals
I am level 1 resource. Need classroom management ideas. We've been placed on a block schedule this year due to Covid so I have students for 85 minutes every other day. I have a larger group who are all working at different levels and have different goals. I am constantly jumping from one student to another trying to work them but I am failing. I can't keep them on task, quite, or motivated. If I walk away from one, they're immediately messing around. Group work is a joke. HELP!
Hi all. I have got TCS documents submit mail as I have cleared the technical and MR rounds. But I am not sure if I submit the documents and got the offer letter and reject/accept will affect my future opportunities with TCS considering my highest offered offer is of 15.5CTC incase TCS not able to match/give more?
Yoe 3.7yr with relevant 3yr in sap abap. Just wanted to know if I get equal or more offer than 15.5lpa from TCS.
Would doing a Graduate Certificate + CSCP certification be a good substitute for doing a full MS or MBA (without having to take GRE/GMAT)?
Here’s the story- I graduated in 2020 w/ my BFA. I have 4 yrs of exp. working for a local magazine and nonprofit organization. I left the nonprofit for an agency. After working at this agency for 1 yr, the environment seems to be not so good with my manager. I am making 34k while working very hard and overtime almost everyday. It seems like my boss has favorites and I’m not one of them. It took me applying to many jobs to get this one, I feel very stuck now.. any advice? 🥲
Hi guyes i got selected for tcs but i attended as 3 rd attempt within 2 months gap thrid time i got selected and i got offer and joining date tooo wether i can able to join or they will verify background while joining?
Should one be concern when your ad agency is losing employees every week? 🤔Do I need to run ?
Anyone out there willing to perform a few casing sessions with me this weekend?
Interview coming up next week!
Hey guys! I’m looking to improve my Verbal from a 37 to mid40s. Specific sources you recommend? Any tips? Since it’s my second language, implement has been slower than expected
TFW... a decision needs to be made....
Anyone recommend tape in hair extensions and how much do you pay to retape? Did it ruin your hair when you took them out?
I have 3 year of experience. Skill. Java backend developer.
Ibm is offering 13+1.5jb, 6b band application de
I have another offer 15fixed+1.5jb.
Will ibm match the offer letter?
Additional Posts (overall)
Does anyone else feel like their S/O is becoming more like a roommate? We’re in our early thirties and have lived together now for three years. Intimacy has dwindled in the last 5 months or so, we still get along great and enjoy our time together, but feels less romantic. My fear is that if this is what it feels like when we’re young, that it will be be like when we’re in our 40s and 50s? Has anyone else gone through this and how did it work out for you?
How do/did you know your SO is right for you?
Grass is Greener on The Other Side Syndrome - Advice Needed
I’m a 24 year old man with a 27 year old gf, have been dating a year and a half and we live together since January (in a house I own alone).
This will sound obnoxious but is the heart of the issue. I am very intelligent and always have been growing up (skipped years in school, currently doing my second part time masters and have been a straight A student my whole life). I am also a very high performer in work with high aspirations…
FML. I’ve been dating someone for 8 months and have been having doubts about the longevity of the relationship. This week he tells me he is thinking about leaving our city and working remotely. Even though I was already thinking about ending it, this hurts. I know I’m being childish - being rejected by someone who I was planning to reject! And I know he isn’t the right guy for me in the long term. So why does this hurt?! 😭😭😭
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months and he moved to another state for the summer to work. He made female friends that he is constantly texting throughout the day. We spoke and he reassured me that they’re just friends but he’s started being secretive with his phone he even turned off his messages notifications so they dont show up when we’re together. Like one time he went out with them and i didn’t hear from him until the next day(late morning). What should I do?
Anyone know how to deal with the “girl best friend?” My boyfriend insists she is just a friend but she seems a bit too friendly and while I trust him I don’t trust her?
Is it wrong to be with someone that you don’t feel sexually attracted to? Is that a sign to end things? Both early 20’s
What do you do if your best friend has seemingly been ignoring you for a week? Just leave them alone and wait for them to come around? Feeling sad
Date went well until she got so drunk she ended up blacking out/throwing up - clear she’s going through some heavy emotional stuff at home. She’s now saying I deserve better than her, I should run a mile, and that she clearly isn’t in the right mindset for dating. I’ve said that’s fine, but I still like her (maybe foolishly). How to play it? Should I come back soon?
Have a 3 year relationship with GF, she doesn’t seem very happy in the relationship anymore. I personally my am very happy, but she doesn’t feel loved anymore and not attracted to me anymore. We bought a house with together last year, what considerations are there if we do end ups splitting? She paid probably a little more (20% more in down) but the deal is I paid all the mortgage and taxes and bills, it is probably about even now.
My sister’s boyfriend is in the same friend group as his ex, who “shattered his heart” 3 years ago. Their friend group regularly goes on weekend ski trips together including SO’s. He’s moved on, and she says she has no reason to distrust him, but she feels insecure whenever she’s not able to join. Should she ask him not to go when she can’t join? I don’t know how to advise because she doesn’t want to be “that gf,” but I can see how much it bothers her. Wwyd in her situation?
Indian F, 35 years old and getting divorced.
Afraid of being left alone for rest of my life.
I don't have lot of friends and I am so underconfident rn that no one would like me ever.
I don't have courage to put all the effort again in a relationship
Dating apps are basically just meaningless.
With this wfh I dont see a chance of making new friends even if I switch jobs.
Is this the end of my happiness?
What do I do to stay happy?
How much do people spend on engagement rings? I make about $130k in TC to put things into perspective.
My boyfriend has a list of rules to follow as life guidance. I recently disagree with one of them and suggested that it could lead to miscommunication. He claimed that I shouldn’t be insinuating that there’ll be a miscommunication until there’s one (there was one in my opinion but he didn’t realize) and I’m reading things too much. Did I do something wrong here? I didn’t mean to be judgmental but just want to tell him things I observed.
I've just been broken up with by a girl I love - any thoughts on trying to hold on to her?
I've been seeing a girl for about 6 months. She's said she's into me, and that I treat her well, and took a big step of introducing me to people that really matter to her 3 weeks ago.
Her reason is stress - She's doing a masters and has just been evicted so can't afford to stay in the same city. When her masters ends in December she may have to move back to the US, as she might not get a job here.
NEED ADVICE: two good friends of mine (male, female) asked me if I’d like to be in a threesome with them (I’m a male). I thought they were kidding but they weren’t. I’m not into this, how do I let them down softly?
Got ghosted by a guy I was talking to for 4 months who also told me he loved me. Completely confused and totally discouraged from dating now, can’t trust anyone smh.
**Need some Advise**
My ex and I broke up a month ago, but we work in the same office. She completes her first year at the office. Should I wish my ex-my now colleague?
This was a mutual break up and I am her first boyfriend. We both were in a living relation.
What are your thoughts on the everlasting friends debate - cheating or were they on a break?
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