I’m introverted and have no game. What are some effective ways for someone like me to meet new people in a super social setting?

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I love introverts. I will find them when I’m out and go after them.

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I approach people with a learning mindset — wanting to learn about their experiences and interests. Generally, I’m less comfortable talking about myself.

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Ping me. I’m introverted and have no game either.

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I was at EDC and thought it would be cute to make out, hold each other and watch fireworks together. Failed at it though 😥

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Me too. Sorry that I don’t have any tips, but I empathize!

Which city are you in?

SF

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Somebody share the secret plz!! I’m introvert and desperate ;(

Lines are a great way to start chatting with people. Typically only have one or two people from a group so a lot easier to strike up a conversation then approaching an entire group.

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