I’m just so sick of seeing pregnant influencers with perfectly round stomachs frolicking around in overly fashionable clothing. I’m 8 weeks and because I’m on estrogen and progesterone I already have a stomach and am so bloated. I have acne and just feel like a total troll. I know better to not look at social media as a comparison but can’t these women do even a little bit to make pregnancy realistic? Or suggestions for some actually helpful accounts to follow?

I am so sick of hearing about well-being and the “tips” we should adopt in trying to make a difference. Blocking out time in my diary doesn’t do anything aside from making my days longer. It’s about time management assess workload (client and non client) and actively resolve that as the FIRST step to helping most of our wellbeing. Rant, sorry.

My close friend has failed the bar for a second time. This comes as a true shock for them. I know they have a very close family support system that’s local/ they are in good hands for mental health. They have not reached out, at what point do I? (It’s only been a day) / how can I support them?

I’m regards to saving medical receipts to be reimbursed from your HSA at a later date: how do people maintain receipts over time?

What are everyone's thoughts on making the Monthly Child Tax Credit permanent? I think it is an important step to care for the families in our area, but I know not everyone believes in this program

Can I change my insurance from HDHP to a premier plan once my baby is here?

Hi moms..I am 38 but will be 39 when third kid comes along. The other two are 8 and 17 months. Finally found a job I like and am good at. We were officially done having kids after number 2 but this sudden surprise happened. I am 11 weeks and still can't get excited about this. I just never enjoyed the new born phase and pregnancy. I am also sad about being the old mom in the playground..I know not important but feel embarrassed about having a surprise at 39. Can anyone relate?

I have an internal interview tomorrow that’s just been scheduled! I’m freaking out … any tips on questions
Bit of background… I’ve been back from maternity and interviewing for this job that should have been mine before I left! Loads of politics happening but still nervous!!

Is there an industry community for agency mothers to connect? Curious to hear what resources you use & communities you‘re part of. Or does your agency have their own mother groups to support you?

Hello All,
I am a medical device professional, currently working in Capgemini. My expertise is in the Quality & Regulatory Affairs domain. I aspire to join product based companies like Philips, Siemens, Baxter, Medtronic and the likes. If anyone of you are working in these companies, please refer. Much Thanks !!

My insurance (Aetna) does not cover preimplantation genetic testing. Between the biopsy, genetic testing, freezing it will cost us $6K out of pocket. Has anyone forgone PGT? Has anyone done other methods of screening for chromosomal abnormalities (QF-PCR)?

Hello all! I hope you can help me out here.

So I have been struggling to get a job/even interviews after my long maternity leave.


I would love some feedback on what can I do to improve my chances on get an interview and of course a job.

I have 9+years of experience in HR-generalist. I moved from Mexico to Sweden so I’m mostly trying to get a remoto job since I do not live in a big city. Any tips on where I can look for my dream job?

Moving to San Diego in the spring from the central coast. Any recs on places to live (late 30’s with a kid)? Want to be close to restaurants and things to do, but a little too old and tired for gas lamp!

New to area. Best golf course to gift a mother/son round? Both decent golfers <10 HC.

Anyone else have a gaslighting parent? I saw a therapist about my mom for years and it helped, but now in biglaw, it can be really hard to deal with. sometimes my mom delivers a punch to the gut via text in between months of being my friend. I guess I’m just so wound up, my mom’s friendship (which is how I characterize it) is a comfort for me. So when she hits me with something randomly spiteful and hurtful, it’s like shock, devastation, loneliness, and anger all at once.

Does anyone know EY’s policy to leave the firm after maternity leave?

How are you working moms letting your employer know. Your child has to be home because of class closures?

Buying in this current market, from the perspective of, I believe cars are overpriced bc of my 2010 mindset/inflation perspective, but I also think $60k is not what it used to be, and will only continue to mean less. So in that sense, I think im kinda into buying a car now, as my monthly payments due to inflation will be less and less, and i have no doubts ill continue to get good raises. I think I’d rather get that $60k car now than 5 years later when it costs $120k. Thoughts?

For those of you at your goal weight/peak physical health- what are some of the benefits you’ve experienced aside from aesthetics? For background, I’ve gained 20 lbs this year and I can *feel* the difference and it’s not pretty. For example, I now have acid reflux which I’ve never had before 🙃. So I’m wondering if there’s other benefits I never even considered! I would love to hear some inspiration about other end of the spectrum as I begin this lifestyle change to lose weight.

I am 12 weeks pregnant and looking for a new job. My current job has been treating me poorly since they found out I am expecting. When is the right time to tell a company I’m interviewing with that I’m pregnant? After I get an offer?

How stable is Mastercard? I have an offer from them and a food beverage company and my interest is definitely in mastercard but concerned about layoffs.
TC for both is 126k exactly so can’t base it off that either. I’m definitely way more interested in the tech space but like I said this economy is worrisome and I know food and beverage are the last to be affected.

New to this... how long does it actually take to reach ketosis? How do you know?

How do I jump ship from FP&A? My dream job used to be education or something more creative and I want to make that switch.

Hi! I just moved to the states and graduated from my masters degree in Graphic Design, I am starting to look for work but I would like some advice about how much is the average salary for this rol in Boston/Provindence.

Does labs send rejection email? Gave first round, it still shows in process.

Anyone has any idea after how many days Citiustech Healthcare Technologies provide FNF settlement and reliving lettter.
NOTE: I have left the organization in a month after joining without serving notice and HR also confirmed my LWD.

Alright, what's a dating/romance positive you've had recently? Let's hear it in the comments. Don't be salty. People need to know that good still exists

Congrats to all the newly announced PwC partners! 🎊🍾🎉

Any ladies with PMDD get an IUD to help? My doc is recommending one but I haven’t been on BC in 20+ years bc I had some adverse side effects on a hormonal pill (I know BC has come a long way since the early 2000s but I’m still scared). Also does it cause weight gain?

Hey y'all! What are some good recs for books for women's history month? Looking for fiction or nonfiction of strong female characters, sociology type books heavily featuring narratives surrounding women, etc

Toughest interview questions you have faced?

Need advice on some situation. I have 2 offers. Second offer i received after accepting 1st one during notice period. And they have offered little bit less than 1st company but have said to give a revised offer letter by the end of this week. Meanwhile head of data science from 1st company is asking me to enroll in some paid course (by company) and has given me option to choose and revert back by tomorrow. I am not sure I'll be joining them and cannot reject the offer right now. Any advice?

Lately I’ve been getting the vibe that my firm just doesn’t really want me there. I haven’t been assigned new cases in a while and I got put on one big one recently, only to be pulled off the next day. My hours are good (for now) and I’m paid well so I don’t want to prematurely jump ship but maybe I should just see the writing on the wall and start getting some other options before I’m in a position where I have to find something else. Thoughts? Am I being paranoid? Anyone else been there?

Anyone in RBC climate risk? Would love to chat. ( Canada)

Anyone knows where to get antigen test in jersey city area that is covered by insurance?

Hi 🐠 - I’m actively seeking consultants with prior BA / product owner experience for roles at a boutique NYC-based IT consulting firm. DM me!

What’s the latest on SAG & 3rd party sigs?
What are non-union agencies planning to do in the new year?

Hello to my fellow Hyperemesis gravidarum victims.

Is the spectra s1 as good as elvie/willow? Does just getting any one work? I ll have to go to work everyday probably from month 3

FYI - the Snoo is 40% off right now. Great time to buy one if you’ve been eyeing it.

Can folks recommend books for first time moms? I’m very early first trimester but feel totally lost and overwhelmed already. I need like very basic 101 how to take care of an infant and beyond lol. Especially ones that include items that are must haves or nice to haves so I can actually start thinking about a registry.

I know everyone is different, how long did it take you to fall pregnant with your first? We have just started trying but I’m already stressed at the possibility of hiding a pregnancy at friends and family gatherings, taking an international trip in April, and the ‘perfect’ time to be pregnant/due (I know there’s no perfect time!). I feel like a crazy person!

23 weeks and experienced Sciatica pain yesterday. It was pretty bad, but went away after a sleep. I guess the big baby butt was on my Sciatica nerve yesterday.

Any recommendations for less common registry items? Or even things that were recommended to you that ended up being super helpful that you previously knew nothing about? For example, I’ve been loving our snuggle me and wondering if there are other things I’m missing out on.

Getting induced in less than 5 hours! Excited and nervous as this is my first pregnancy. Any last minute recommendations or suggestions for my husband and I?

Apologies if this is a crazy question but is it okay to keep riding my peloton while trying/early on?? My doctor wasn’t super clear / helpful with the question. 🙈

Found out I am pregnant 2 days after receiving a job offer. New job is paying 45% more and more in responsibilities. I am super excited and ready for the new role. In negotiation stage now. Is is bad form if I withheld that info during negotiation - given I’ll be working for maybe 5 months then have to take 4 months off. What’s the industry courtesy?

I am 18 weeks and see watery thing coming out after peeing. It has weird smell. Google tells me that it can be amniotic fluid too... now I am freaked out... anyone gone through this ?

Mockingbird vs UPPAbaby. Pros and cons of each. FTM. I’m looking for a stroller that I can add on to as our family grows. TIA!

I’m six weeks and have either a yeast infection or UTI (been awhile since I had either and symptoms since last night can go either way). Have an urgent care apt later today but worried about antibiotics or medications while it’s still so early and the risk of miscarriage or birth defects. Anyone been through this in first trimester?

Just got a positive test but already a few days past my expected period.
When did you start experiencing nausea and or fatigue ? And when did you start showing ? (I know I am getting way ahead of myself and these things are different for everyone, just excited and curious)

Did anyone here deliver a 10 pound baby? If yes, can you please share your childbirth experience and what you ended up going with?
Doctor told me I’m on track to deliver a 10 pound baby and I’m terrified, I passed the 3 hour glucose test but they’re going to test me again due to the size of the baby.

Anyone did a baby moon trip ? which month? and did you guys fly or drive ? any tips ?

Hey all,

My baby is measuring very big but doesn't seem to be coming on her own, so doctor wants to induce around my due date (I'm 39 weeks pregnant now).

Any risk factors I should take into consideration? Things I should make sure to bring up with my doctor ahead of time? This is my first baby.

Did you’ll make changes to the products you’ll use once you got your BFP? Like body wash, face wash, hand wash, dish soap etc?