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I'm kind of seeing this guy but we only see each other every 2 weeks or so, whenever we have a mutual friend gathering but we text pretty much everyday. Is it indicative that he's not really into me?

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I also firmly believe guys do tend to show more interest when you become more unattainable so get some other guys going as well and don't pay him so much attention. Would also be relevant to understand who texts who first and at what time. First thing in the morning could be relevant, only late at night.... booty call

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And Please don't talk about your conclusion with him or inform him - just move on to finding Someone who treasures you - no need for closure since nothing to close - you can still be pals - introduce him to your smart funny handsome appreciative attentive boyfriend

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damn OP is confident

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Hard to say. Might be worth asking him what he wants. Worst case scenario, you're just a hookup and you can decide if that works for you or not. Best case scenario he's busy / trying to be considerate and doesn't know you feel the way you do.

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when ur fingers touch your chin in a rubbing like motion is too much

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If his texting is of no substance, and he is not in elementary school where emoji is conversation, then you are a hookup. If he was putting forth texting effort at least you could cling to that but only group outings and meaningless texts are a strong indicator that he is either not interested or under 12 years old. Since you are hot why don't you find your emotional and intellectual equivalent who makes you tingle...

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I mean im a guy and i hate texting so if im texting a girl everyday im interested. He just might not know if your into him and my just be playing it cool waiting for yoy to show interest. Its the never ending game my friend

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All right, that's annoying. If you like him, keep him around but look for other guys to add into the mix.

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Yes. If he really was into you he would be seeing you at least 2-3 a week

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"That's just fact."

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If you don't compliment yourself, no one else will

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If you have to ask, probably not. My BF is on the other side of the country and we only see each other in person a few times per year, but we text every day, talk on the phone a few times a week, and when we do see each other - well... talk about fireworks!

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What is there to talk about? Other than good morning he isn't reaching out to ask about you or your day or your struggles. Look, as a guy, I can unequivocally state we are a very simple beast. If he isn't chasing he is not into you. You deserve someone who is.

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I would say so, but to each their own. I know I'm better looking than him though, that's just fact.

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if yr texting every day, he's into you.

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Also, every time we text, conversation goes no where. He always replies and uses a ton of emojis but literally there's no substance to it.

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Thanks Xuemei- you always have the best advise :-)

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Thank you MD. You are def right

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Thank you MD!! My biggest problem with this whole situation was that I was never into him and he was the one who pursued me

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I'm sure he is just a diamond in the rough and you can fix him. Don't give up, if you do you'll never know if he was the one.

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