I’m nervous to bring my boyfriend to work events. We’re both Furies and although I do not let that known to my coworkers, he has a history of refusing to keep that part of our life private at social events. We’ve had arguments about it before but he doesn’t see the harm in letting others know (both verbally and visually). Am I wrong in thinking this is something we should keep private?

Any book recommendations to gift my cousin sister? She studied (masters) psychology and is a trained classical dancer.

Entering 2-4 years of long distance. Been together for a year. I know she is the one for me, any tips on making it as painless as possible?

36F, was drunk and kissed my friend on the hand when I was saying goodbye - he’s 45M, married. How weird is this on a scale of 1 to 10? 🙈. No attraction or bad intentions - definitely blaming it on the goose.

If I say same thing to her mom, whatever she said to my mom.
How do I dare to talk her mom like that, I was like wtf.

Can anyone recommend a good couples therapist in the city? I know its all about personal fit, but any leads would be helpful. Thanks.

Hi fishes,
I have recently joined a product based startup and I'm unable to do tasks in the timely manner. I used to be productive before coming here and used to complete all the tasks before time. There is a lot of job insecurities coming in my mind, also there's a huge lifestyle change coming up in 4-5 months I'm getting married. Not sure how to deal with everything and expenses. What to do? All advices are welcome. Thanks

Has anyone here successfully restored / rebuilt their relationship after infidelity?

It’s been 3 months since I found out but I can’t help but feel like we haven’t made progress.

Just got broken up with someone who I gave my all too- emotionally, mentally, etc. Partly feel its my fault. Intellectually speaking I lnow thi feeling of loss is temporary. But im 34, living in my parents basement, with chronic depression and now lost my best friend. I dont want to sleep knowing that tomorrow is another day of misery. This all happened coincidentally whilst going down 5 mg on trintillex. “Everything happens for a reason. God has a better plan.” i hope i dont need a PTO day tom

My wife is pregnant with a girl. We’re going over names. I suggested Eleven.

I have a pretty passionate hate for those who have “no fault” divorces. These people can’t keep one single promise in their life even when they have the choice of anyone on an entire planet and are not forced one bit into a decision.

42F dating 42M for 9 months. We used to live about 30 minutes away from each other and saw each other once a week, but I moved a few months ago (now10 minutes away) and we still only see each other once a week. He calls me every night and we talk on the phone for 1-2 hours. We do lots of fun stuff together- art fairs, sporting events, and just relax and cook together and watch some movies. He sees his friends once every couple months. Am I wasting my time with this guy? No kids/don't want kids

Any recommendations for books for desi parents ? Politics , economics, world order , self help

Why doesn't my BF understand that he can be so awful? I asked him for work advice, and he kept shouting at me what he thought I should do. I told him not to yell at me. We haven't spoken since.

Best relationship talks / videos you have ever seen?

At what age did u lose your s*x desire? I a 28 and I don’t feel it fun as in the past. I feel sad

Looking for some perspective: we just got a brand new $2,000 glass top 78" dining table. I asked my husband to please use a table cloth when he uses that table for d&d with his friends to avoid scratches and the loud dice on the table. He got upset that I "don't let him enjoy our stuff," that I "hate the sound of him having fun," and he says I am being unreasonable. From my perspective, I just want to preserve this expensive piece of furniture that we both love. Am I being unreasonable?

I cheated... we aren’t supposed to do real art in the morning. We watch an art video and discuss in the morning, then in the afternoon we post an instructional video and the kids do a small project at home... I cheated yesterday. I handed out air dry clay and went to town with my 3rd grades.... the kids said it was the most fun art class ever. I will get in trouble for passing stuff out, but I needed it. So did the kids. Best art day all year!

This is our first holiday season in the Nashville area, any suggestions on family activities/light displays we should check out? Our kids our 8, 5, and 3.

Did anyone reject someone a million times on the apps, eventually gave them a chance and are now married?

I have pretty strong social phobia and am worried about making friends. I'm going to be working for an engineering company so I imagine I don't have to be really up on the latest trends or anything but how can I talk to people without making it sound unnatural?

This is specific to Bangalore AC folks. Are you people able to use Sodexo physical card in offline stores? My card is getting declined always stating merchant is not eligible, however in their merchant list i can see merchant is eligible. Not sure, if I am missing something.

TIA.

Do you wear heels in court?

Recruiter is asking for names of my clients in a particular industry. One is a public company but the rest are private companies. I feel like this is info that shouldn’t be shared? Am I wrong?

Anybody work in Loan Syndications? What are the hours like within these groups? Thanks!

Anyone here working as SRE for big data in Amex?

Hi all! Would anyone be willing to give me a PayPal referral? The position is Global Account Specialist. Happy to chat, feel free to PM me!

I’m considering an MBA, and am confused on my chances based on some of the posts here. I have a 3.2 Engr UG, work in analytics (strategy & architecture), and help the IT dept of NGO with data strategy

🚀How is current standard in IT market? 2x, 3x,4x..... ?

X is YOE & Nx is salary

My observation - 3x might be current standard

Service company - 2x - 3x
Banks - 3x - 4x
Product co 3.5x - 4.5x
Startup -- 4x & more ..Depends

What are the salaries for training specialists or people who work on education and development departments?

Hey All

I joined Cognizant in June 2021. And I received a variable pay for 190 days (Till Dec 2021). I plan to leave in April and will be leaving the company by June. Will I get the remaining days of variable pay?

Any one has an idea of Senior Consultant (3YOE) salaries at Monitor Deloitte / Strategy& / EYP / T2s?

Planning early June honeymoon with ~350k Marriott Bonvoy points - we’re looking at either Europe or Asia as potential locations - any recommendations for hotels? I.e. W Maldives, Marriott Momi Fiji..

Only for men:

How do you deal with a best friend breakup?

I know friendship breakups between men are not talked about openly, but I had to.

Best friend was a Male too

Akin Gump - Dallas
Real Estate - 3rd year
Looking for any general input about the firm/group. Also work culture and typical hours.

Hello Guys... What is the process for background check in SAPlabs. I have received a mail from a third party known as sterling .. and that too it only asked for address history and not other details....

Any idea guys..?

Hello guys,

Please let me know the chances of getting a govt or bank Or psu jobs in sports quota. My sister was a national level hockey player.

Inputs would do better.

Thank you.

I had my best year of earning. So my accountant advised that I get married to lower my taxes.

I just turned 26 recently and met this girl who is 21. We’ve been hanging out and really hit it off, I like her a lot and want to date her but I’m worried about the perceptions of here age gap 🙃 Have gotten mixed opinions, some say that’s fine and others say she’s too young, idk

Little Miss Red Robinhood.

One of my parents suddenly passed away. I don’t think a week is enough for me to recover and plan for the other parent. The right thing for me and my family is at least three weeks off while I focus on future plans for the surviving parent. I’m not sure how my team will react but who cares.

I have a theory - Whoever reported the pic thread was just jealous

I’ve been living at home to save a ton of money. When do you guys think I should move out? 🫠

I'm hoping you can help me! (Cross post from other bowls)

I have a two leg flight. My first leg has been delayed so many times that I won't make my connecting flight in Dallas.

Are there any airline hacks I should know about? It sounds like the flights to my original destination tomorrow are pretty full. How do I get to my destination? How do I make sure that the airline gods smile favorably upon me? Am I destined to spend the night inside the Dallas Fort Worth airport tonight? 😮‍💨

I like sex. How’s that for a confession😈😈😈😈

your last words before you die?

I’m wearing a coat at the pub and it’s very hot here. I refuse to take if off because I thought it would be cold😈🧐.

I love candy corn.

For the next lockdown I propose we do it like the last one. Meaning all unvacccinated stay home.

does faking it till you make it or it’s not what you know, it’s who you know - reality or is this a way to allude the common folks?

Sometimes I want to start arguments because I’m bored.

I have a flaw - I have this bad habit of wanting to prove that I’m right.

I’ve never really used social media and I don’t understand how Linked-In is supposed to help me advance in my career. Seems like like a load of BS to me

To all the divorced folks out there...

1) What went wrong in your relationship?
2) What's one piece of advice you'd give to us singletons before jumping into a long term relationship/marriage?

I like to learn from other people's mistakes 😅